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Hi guys, Interested to hear your thoughts on this, whether you're for or against it for whatever reasons. I was lying on the beach this weekend and my girl whipped her top off as usual, however asked me if it was appropriate as it was a family style beach. I said whatever makes you happy...

As I said, I realise this. Thanks for the advice, however I was not looking for an open relationship with this girl.

This resonated for me, I agree. I certainly wouldn't want to be judged in the same way. Also samspade, agree with all of this, it's a healthy perspective in my mind. I just wish my judgement was as seemingly sharp as yours! Women can be so convincing in what they present.

Just thought I’d give you guys an update to this story: It’s a little long my apologies.. So ego aside, I agree with the majority here, that past is past and as long as it has no negative influence on the current relationship then enjoy the spoils of both partners’ experience and don’t ask...

i'm actually warming to the idea of getting back with this girl following this conversation. There is no doubt she was 100% loyal and committed to me during our relationship. I like her wild ways.. I guess if I want that I have to learn how to deal with the ups and downs of an emotional...

Some interesting replies.. thanks. Rollo, whilst this is a valid point, I'm not sure how useful it is to think in such extremes. Situations (and women) are rarely so black and white, but if it was the case as stated, I would have to say no. I've found out some interesting facts this week...

I found out this week my ex is pretty much a *****.. She’s had many partners, ****ed in clubs, given head in toilets, etc. She comes from a good family background and her mother would be ashamed if she found out. Now we broke up for others reasons, emotional instability, she was trying to...

I too feel where you're coming from. The last couple of girls I've dated were crazy, but now in hindsight I'm starting to think my (poorly?) implemented DJ tactics may have actually contributed significantly to this... They get so frustrated by their inability to 'capture' me they literally...

Cheers ElChoclo, that is making much more sense, next time I might try to address the situation with less emotion on my part and be a little more pragmatic with response. Easier said than done. lol. Come to think of it, after that particular conversation we were discussing character traits...

Hmm I am seeing your point now. But by definition, didn't she invite a discussion on the topic? EDIT: I thought by sternly saying no, that was showing strength, and then perhaps conviction when I mentioned that if she was cheating, the result would be the end of the relationship?

Yes on the surface, but I really think it may be a reaction to my occasional elusivness. Perhaps she is trying to pull back some authority and create doubt in my mind (which has worked lol) Anyway, why bother myself with this? If I find out I know what to do. All her other behaviour has been...

I essentially answered no, however I qualified it by saying that if she did, then I would leave her, and hence, be a blessing is disguise. Perhaps I have scared her off telling the truth? Hmm, I am taking her out for her birthday tonight, perhaps I should press this issue, or forget it...

I really find it hard to believe she has.. it doesn't suit. But I have to agree it's a strange question. Hmm, am I being naive here? She has been super devoted over the last 6 months..

What do you guys think this means? I have been dating this girl for 6 months or so and she pops this question last night, I sort of brushed it off by saying I don't entertain the thought, and if it happening I guess it would be a blessing in disguise... Still it makes me wonder what the...

Ok, thanks for the advice fellas, appreciated. Against my instincts I decided to chase this girl a little. I guess she provided me with some challenge which initially I thought was lacking between us due to her high interest level. But as it turned out even though I felt she was over-reacting...

Thanks for the advice guys; I really did think she over-reacted. Interestingly enough last night, in my attempt to smooth things over I met with her, her interstate friend and her inter-state uncle. Charmed them all, including her best friend, and after a couple of hours had her friend...

Hey guys, I am not quite sure how to act with this girl I have been dating. She has had a super high interest level since the start, to the point where at times I considered a few things red flags but others considered them sweet (like buying me a toothbrush the first night I stayed over)...