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I'd say -- don't break up without giving her a chance to change. You have perhaps gotten too used to her and are just seeking some challenge of novelty. Why don't you tell her directly that this is what you want, and ask her to change herself so that she gives you more space, and warn her that...

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Contd from above..... Firstly, I've already explained above that it was a mistake on my part to have brought any question of nationality into the picture. I apologize once more. It isn't about what country you come from. I was just disgusted at the opinion...

I wish to thank all of you who replied and offered their insights and advice. It surely gave me more angles to think from, and brought greater clarity. I especially find the readings of NewMan and GangsterOfLove to be very pertinent! ApocaypseCow, I appreciate that you posted though I...

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Contd from above..... I am not dodging anything. As long as people have genuine queries I always address those. But it doesn't apply to statements that masquerade as questions. And the question posed here was not in expectation of an answer -- it was just saying...

Re: Re: Re: Re: Contd from above..... Being an American doesn't have to do with anything.:) I apologize for it. It's incorrect, as all sweeping generalizations are. I was just exasperated at the absolute callousness, not to mention unfathomable stupidity, of ApocalypseCow's post. As...

Well, the word 'calculate' just came in as kind of a Freudian hangover. I just happen to play a lot of chess, especially online. :) But, even without chess, probably it could have sneaked in. I do have an analytical bent of mind, and do remain obsessed with things till I solve those. I...

Re: Re: Contd from above..... Dear ApocalypseCow2 , If making me laugh is your idea of giving me a shock, then in humble amusement I accept it.:) It's written all over your post that you are an American. You seem to show the classic symptoms of 'if it doesn't happen in my backyard...

I think that's a very good piece of advice. My thanks to Golden Arms too for his reply. Let me emphasize once again that it isn't that I feel at a loss that she's already with someone. I always had that in my calculations -- it had more than 95% probability of happening. (Sure it hurts a...

Contd from above..... One Friday (and this is after three weeks I met her first), with a palpitating heart I ask her while she is leaving office if I could have her company sometime during the weekend, preceding this with an advance apology in case it offends her. She tells me she's not...

A long recount below. Would love it if some of you could offer any insights. I want some well deliberated ones only, not any quicky fixes or tell-alls. Goes something like this. A pretty girl in my office (probably the prettiest). Have noted her for a long time as a pretty face, but wasn't...