Why not just be honest and tell them that you want to let go of the affair relationship but want to retain a relationship with them as you feel that she is an important part of your life that you do not want to see vanish.
This would be in person.
Well, I believe in telling the truth outright. And, most of my friends are guys, they are more truthful.
Girlfriends no matter how good, don't always tell you the truth.
Guys always will.
Gimme a chance.....
Why not talk to your counselor at school for some help?
Sounds like a weak bit of advice, but school counselors are there to help and guide you in confidence.
You seem to need more help than a public forum can provide.
Good luck!
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