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Most of the time it's better to not tell someone before you actually do it. Actions speak louder than words, and sometimes the words can cause resentment. It works better to out of the blue leave someone wondering, than to tell them what you are going to do beforehand.

So what ended up happening here, what did you do? Give us an update.

I don't know if you should cycle it so much. If you contact her frequently, then you don't for a few days and then you start again she will become less worried about the times that you haven't contacted her because she knows you will start again. Hope I am making sense. I think have a period...

You have a personality disorder, I highly recommend you get yourself checked out. For your own sake and others.

If you haven't even kissed her yet then I suggest you do so. She may lose interest if you do nothing or wait too long she might just LJBF you. Go for it, but only if it feels right. Maybe you don't want to be more than friends with this girl?

LOL, so why don't you want this chick around anymore? You have to tell her the truth, you hate when chicks play games with you, don't play games with her. Tell her straight out you are no longer interested and wish her well.

No it's not what we want. It might be good for a little while (very short while) but it can get bloody annoying. I'd rather a girl with a bit of independence, otherwise you start to think she is so desperate and can't get anyone else. It also becomes too boring and easy, if she's acting like...

Why are you posting this? Maybe you don't wish it was over, and you're feeling a bit jealous she's going with another guy. What doesn't make sense at all is that YOU told her you don't want a relationship and then you get the sh!ts with her thinking she's not nice enough when she tells you...

I probably wouldn't have fvcked her friend to make her jealous it's going a bit too far. I think you've ruined it there. You should have just pashed the friend to make her jealous and that would make her guess if anything else was going on. If you want her as an LTR she'll never trust you now...

I think you should try again. It's been awhile so any mistakes you made before have been long gone and she's probably forgotten for the most part. Good luck.

I'm definately not a fan of this test. Can't be bothered explaining though.

Well it all depends what advice the person you are ganjing has been given whether they decide to move on or not. If the girl has read this book then she will probably move on but you wouldn't know what advice they were getting or what they were reading, ah it's all getting too complicated...

It's a real pet peeve of mine that when people find out I am a psychologist (registered) they make assumptions and 'scrutinize' as you feel the need to do. If I was anything else (lawyer, truck driver, bank manager) no-one would bother to write paragraphs questioning the fact. I've never...

I think this is good advice. I also think that the longer your relationship was before you broke up then the longer you should wait.

Hey Seabreeze, don't be so down. Ganji probably wouldn't work on a guy from this site. But generally it does work on males also. I'm a psychologist and this phenomenon is in no way exclusive for females. They are human tendencies, there are some differences with how men and women go about...

I had to bump this thread because I found it interesting. I was with my gf for 2 years, we broke up ages ago but this was the story of our relationship. I acted like a complete AFC and she lost interest. Then I felt all I could do was leave her alone. She came back as a female AFC and I was...

Yeah I'm with you there, I think you're onto a good thing in dealing with her. Don't give in and keep it up so she doesn't flake or start to find this other guy attractive. My problem was that I always showed my sensitive side and never took it away. Stuff like that. I only just realised...

Your reason is in the post you just wrote. You can tell her that you don't love her as much anymore. And that she cheated on you and that's not acceptable.

I think this is a good tactic. But only if you've known the girl for long enough to be comfortable in your presence. If you haven't known each other that long then she might not be comfortable with you offering.

She won't kill herself, leave her. She cheated on you, she is NO GOOD! She knows she can keep you hanging around with threats because she thinks you are weak in this way. You have to leave her because she will just keep cheating on you because you let it happen and stayed with her before...