Guyz help! i needed an immediate advice

tatlongxxx

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i know i've been an assholÉ.

i have a GF which i supposed to dump but i cannot do it because she always act hurt (she cries, telling me that she will kill herself if i breakup with her).

Why i will dump her -> before, she cheated on me and want to dump me because she already falling inlove with a guy.

Now here's the situation.
I met someone, which is actually attracted to me. We chat everyday, she laugh at my jokes. We settled a date and its ok. But yesterday, my GF went to our house and found out on my cellphone a txt message of this girl. My GF felt hurt on what is written on the txt, i never thought she feel that hurt eventhough she cheats. She acts violently.

i want an advice to dump this slut. to tell u frankly i am afraid because she want to kill herself that is why i dont know what to do.
 

Lost In Translation

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been there done that.

ok lets start with a rule for all of us.

NEVER LET A WOMAN TOUCH YOUR CELL / MOBILE PHONE

EVER.

i cannot stress to you how much CHAOS a woman can cause you with some numbers she steals from your phone or messages she can send off your phone.

as for the violent gf. i had exact same situation once.

she will not kill herself. she says that because she knows your

WEAKNESS.

violent b*cthes are trouble, any future ho of mine that even mumbles a threat is NEXT'd.

she will continue to cheat on you because she knows you are weak. she will try to ruin all your future relationships while she has access to your reality. she will use violence when you NEXT her. possibly even by getting some other guys to bash you.

watch your back jack


Lost In Translation

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tatlongxxx

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thanks guyz

what if she keeps on calling/seeing me?

Sometimes she sleeps in my house, whether i tell her she can't.
She always wanted to have sex with me.

Before she cheated, we actually engage and settled plans for the future. Our parents met, and agree for the marriage we proposed. My parents does not know she cheated, they may get depressed for me if i tell them.
 

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anyone there?????

anybody have an advice
 

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She won't kill herself, leave her.
She cheated on you, she is NO GOOD!
She knows she can keep you hanging around with threats because she thinks you are weak in this way. You have to leave her because she will just keep cheating on you because you let it happen and stayed with her before. The threats of suicide are only a tactic she is using to keep you hanging around.
 

tatlongxxx

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i cannot dump her for no reason? do i need to follow her to have one?

I feel guilty, everytime i want to breakup with her. i do not love her as much before.
 

neoncola

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Originally posted by tatlongxxx
i cannot dump her for no reason? do i need to follow her to have one?

I feel guilty, everytime i want to breakup with her. i do not love her as much before.
Your reason is in the post you just wrote. You can tell her that you don't love her as much anymore. And that she cheated on you and that's not acceptable.
 

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dump her real quick... and then file for a personal protection order from the court in wherever you live.
 

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i cannot dump her for no reason?

Why not? Who the hell is she that you need to justify your decisions? Don't think for one sec she wouldn't drop you like a bad habit (man that's corny) if SHE was interested in someone else. I'm willing to bet she wouldn't even think twice about it.


I feel guilty, everytime i want to breakup with her.

She knows this and is using it to her advantage. Why else do you think she's 'crying' and threatening to hurt herself (which she won't do).
 

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putang ina DUmp that ***** pare...

you said she wanted to dump you before coz she fell in love wid someone else..so just go 4 it...

am afraid because she want to kill herself that is why i
dont know what to do.
dont listen to watch she says...

"Judge by actions, not by words"-Pook

Lost in translation-..haha never let a woman touch your mobile phone..ill remember that...;)

and Tatlongxxx...hahah nice nick by the way chong...

maybe she's just using you to get stuff coz she knows you cant break up wid her..

well then again just my opinion, i could always be wrong
 

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did you know..

if you tell someone to get out of your house, and they don't, they can be arrested for trespassing?

if you try to leave her hourse, but she won't let you go, she can be arrested for unjust imprisonment?

break up with her, and get a restraining order on it... and enforce it. if she threatens to kill herself, call the police, they're not supposed to take death threats lightly

LEAVE man. Tell her, tell your parents, and everyone else in your neighborhood.
 
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