Crazy girl I hope to have kicked to the curb....

Blurred Elevens

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I don't really know why I'm posting this, guess I just need to share and maybe get some others point of view on what I just did.

I'm going to try and make this as short as possible.

I've known this woman for a while, and she's known that I don't want a relationship, only because my friend has told her that's how I feel. We've been ****ing for a while, and she's obviously very attracted to me. She's been playing games, and has round-a-boutly told me how she doesn't want to be my "ho", and that she doesn't work like that. She then told me tonight that she was going to start "dating" this one guy. She threw it at me out of left field tonight, and I was like, you've told me all this **** that you want to be with me, and now you're playing games. Then I was like, let's resolve this **** right now. She sat on my lap and was kissing and hugging on me, and I told her that she wasn't good enough for me, and that she couldn't "be kind enough" to me for me to be in a relationship with her. I told her that I refused to be abused, and she asked if I wanted her to leave. I said, "yeah", and she left......

What do y'all think of that? I hope it's over with her, the hard part is that she's a really good friends roommate, and I know I'll be seeing her again.....that's what ****ing blows.
 

neoncola

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Why are you posting this?
Maybe you don't wish it was over, and you're feeling a bit jealous she's going with another guy.

What doesn't make sense at all is that YOU told her you don't want a relationship and then you get the sh!ts with her thinking she's not nice enough when she tells you she wants to date someone else?
All I can see is a hidden jealous reaction because you thought she wanted to be dating you, not someone else.
She told you she wanted a relationship with you. You told her you didn't. You had your chance. She's not going to be 'nice' and continue telling you that she wants a relationship and continue hanging around. In fact she's respecting you by actually telling you she wants to date someone else. She respected you again by asking if you wanted her to leave and then leaving.

Playing games and abusing you? If telling a chick you don't want a relationship and then her telling you she wants to date someone else is playing games and abusing you then I'm the king of england.
Why are you complaining? If you don't want a relatonship with her then it should be fine this way, no accusations of her abusing you, not being kind enough and playing games. Weird.....
You aren't good enough for this chick, not the other way around.

This chick has done nothing wrong.
 

Blurred Elevens

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Nah, you don't understand her vindictiveness. She's just playing games TRYING to make me jealous, and I kicked her to the curb for trying to manipulate me into being jealous. It's the next level of the game kid....If you knew shyt about women, you'd know they don't just "decide they're no longer wanting a relationship" and moving on....She's just trying to win the game, and I guarantee she went home wanting me more. Too bad for her I don't want her........muhahahahha!! That's called being a player kid, calling them on their game, and calling game over. That's all simp.
 

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to me, it sounds like you're both playing games with each other. You just admitted you was a player. You're fvcking this bytch as much as you want, but you ain't trying to be with her...

Understandable...

She wants to be with you, but she can't get you so she's using jealousy to see if she can get you to "see the light". Things a lot of females do when they get desperate for a dude.

Understandable....

And what i understand is... you're both playing games with each other. But I don't think you want to kick her to the curb like you say. A lot of us here kick plenty of bytches to the curb, but you're the first to post about it, so I think you want someone here to make you feel better or to convince you into thinking what you did was to your advantage, because you're still worrying about if what you did will make this ho like you more....

Both of you are playing games. You'll end up getting together, but something tells me that she ain't just fvcking you...
 
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