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    Need serious help, about to turn 40 and never had a gf or sex

    Gosh, where to begin. First I would start with forgetting about the past. I know, easier said than done, and I too am guilty of being a bit self-pitying from time to time (I even just posted a question to a recent problem of my own), but only once in an infrequent while. What you need to...
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    Torn on what to do.

    This is a good test of your friendship with him. I've been in both situations before. It would help if you have HER talk to him about how she feels about him (just a friend) and then you talk to him about what's up, show you empathize with him, but that you also like this girl and she is really...
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    I got **** teased, AGAIN.

    Hello fellow DJs, I have a problem I need a solution to. Forgive the somewhat winded post, I like to give details. Last night was an awful experience that I need to make sense of. Recently, I've been getting **** teased relentlessly by women. Every girl that has expressed interest in me...
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    sosuave members - DO YOU SUCK WITH GIRLS?

    Actually speed seduction is about capturing and leading the imagination through language, evoking and eliciting a woman's process for feeling amazing, beautiful, ecstatic, adventurous, etc. and most importantly MASTERING YOUR OWN STATES BELIEFS AND POTENTIAL FOR ATTRACTIVENESS. It's not just...
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    Lack of interest in SS/NLP on this board?

    I use alot SS and NLP, and IMO, is so invaluable because, the language of innuendo, of suggestion, of imagination is what has been getting women turned on since the begining of time. That's what it is. AT FIRST learning to use it is feels like manipulation, because for some reason, learning to...
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    A Disturbing Statistic

    another disturbing stat I read that 20% of people are unaware that their father is someone other than who they think it is. Kinda fits in with this huh? This was done by taking a LARGE amount of DNA samples from fathers and their daughters/sons from different areas.
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    Lost a girl to an AFC

    Being AFC is not giving compliments. Being AFC is demonstrating desperate behavior and not believing in yourself. You can give compliments, but if you give compliments becuase you think you need to do it to make someone like you, or to win their favor, then you're being AFC. It's all in the...
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    I haTE!!!!hate hatE!! myself(im tired of this s*#t)

    Good Book A GREAT book to read for this kind of self-image problem is psycho-cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz. It's basically a set of exercises and insights that can rapidly change your self-image and sense of possibility. Ever wonder why some guys just seem to get girls without any effort and...
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    27 and nothing

    you need this The thing you need is 3-dimensional mind by Tom Vizzini of essential skills. What it is is an NLP technique designed to first find the beliefs that get in the way and eliminate them. You're beliefs are causing your frustration and isolation. Beliefs are self-fulfilling...
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    Married women

    Here's a dirty little secret: It's estimated that somewhere around 1 out of every 10 people does not know who their real father is. Married women cheat. A LOT!
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    why are guys scared to approach?

    This is gold right here. "The second time will be much easier" this says. It makes the idea of approaching seem much easier. YAY!
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    why are guys scared to approach?

    Actually..... I'm what you could consider an "extreme" skier. I jump off cliffs, ski over things that would kill or seriously injure me if I were to fall. Now, when I'm doing these things, I'm SCARED, I mean it's really scary. But I still DO IT and GO FOR IT instead of sit back and say to...
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    Gimmicks

    Hey does anyone here use gimmicks such as palmistry or Handwriting Analysis for approaches? I've been studying H.A. and am getting pretty comfortable with it. Tomorrow I'm going to start doing approaches with it. I wanted to know what to expect and maybe how to properly frame it. Thanks
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    Rejection

    Re: Re: Re: Re: Rejection OOOO!! THat's excellent advice!! Much of what has scared me has been what to say and not ****ing up. This is great man, you should do a post on this idea.
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    Rejection

    Re: Re: Rejection When I start feeling this way, it becomes IMPOSSIBLE to approach. I mean, NO WAY! How do I change the meaning of what I am doing so that I don't feel so bad in the first place?
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    Rejection

    I just started school and I purposely put a weight lifting class in between my other classes to force myself to work out. I agree it does do wonders for your self image and energy levels. Thanks for reminding me of that.
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    Rejection

    Cool! I'll try this. Can you shed any light on what aspects of it? How does it help? Thanks!
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    Rejection

    Hi maybe someone here can give me a boost. I just cannot STAND getting rejected. And I don't mean in the hostile spill drink n lap kind of way. But approaching a girl, introducing myself and having her just not wanting to talk to me. I'll go to a party introduce myself to maybe one or two...
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