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Guys, I just break up yesterday with my one-year relationship. I couldn't stand more with her insecurity and her little games and provocations, although I have give her signs to change her behaviour many times. She did all to stop me but I stood with my decision. Never a guy had break with her...

Well, she's insisting on that ****, I dont' tell her, I just tell her that what counts is acts not words, and if I'm with her and we do things together, that speaks for itself. She gets sad and stupid nevertheless... 1st: Is my response right on a DJ point of view? 2nd: Is this a bad sign...

I’m 29. This is my dilemma: I have this girlfriend from about a year now; I always knew she wasn’t my “life” girl, although she sees me that way. I have kept things going... Well, now I’ve meet this blonde where exist a strong mutual attraction and we started something, we see after hours...

Do you realize she only told you this because she may be expecting from that guy? Also the thing in the drink is probably lie. If she lied on another things she can lie on this too. Personally I cannot tell you to do this or that because it's a personal and painfull decision. I can tell...

Maybe he is more charming than you, and that rich thing is just an excuse you mentally give to yourself.

It seems the date went well, but that doesn't mean nothing yet... I would make a move next date if I was you. I had first dates like yours in the past and I lost the girls because I didn't had the courage to make a move when I should. It is risky thought, but that's the nature of the DJ...

You are right... because you live in America, where chicks are psychological sick to the bone. Ulex

Disagree on "plenty of women just want sex". Even if they say that they don't mean it... They always want the emotions of being in love, the game of attraction and conquest. And in last case, if they really just want sex, they are masculine chicks or flawed chicks; not the kind of woman a DJ...

Thanks but you get the wrong picture, the best friend I'm discribing is hers...

I’ve been ****in*** this 26 years old girl frequently in secrecy for about 3 weeks. She seems to enjoy me a lot, she never says no to me. She’s divorced. She’s very unstable emotionally. When I meet her she had a boyfriend which she didn’t like, but the problem was they shared a house. She has...

My best friend is an 80% AFC and has the same behaviour you describe towards Sosuave. I have quit trying to elucidate him. If one is not open to learn, then it's useless.

OK, I am exaggerating a bit, still some AFC in me. But when she says: "I ear nice words from other men, but no like yours... I missed you to..." I can't help it! :p Still you are right in criticizing me. Ulex

I'm in a similar situation right now, I see this woman at night (we are starting a relashionship) and during the day while at work we exchange emails. I'm very careful about what I write. I keep it short, simple, romantic without being sentimental. I write a mixture of normal conversation...

That's strength - your attitude towards life, and to post in this sad day, fellow DJ friend. My condolences, Ulex

Hi DJ’s. I’m having a relationship with this girl from about 2 weeks. She’s 26. She adores me and I like the girl. But she’s extremely jealous. I’m doing the detachment thing with her, being independent from her; but of course, giving her the deserved attention. We don’t see during the day...

There's no straight technique to get laid; it all depends on your DJ abilities in general. But here's something original you can use: say you are an abstainer (from sex), that you choose this life of abstinence and asceticism... Don't forget that you * choose this life *. Ulex

I write beautiful things to this woman by email, and she asked me "I feel you are a very special man. Do you say these things to other girls?" What should I answer? Ulex

You should be careful with the more manly approach. I recently have been hanging around with a group of girls and I started not showing interest, while they were all over me. Some of them call me gay. Then I decide to make a move on two of them, and it was a disaster. I almost loose them all...

Which one is the ultimate DJ?

I think the decision to “Next” a girl should be made on a case-to-case basis. One should analyse the reasons why the girl gave a refusal, and many times one may conclude that the error was not with the girl, but with oneself. As an example, most girls in traditional environments will only enter...