it doesn't make sense. I'm tall and look above average, I showed my pic before here. Also, I'm ripped, I have net worth in seven digits and other very good qualities. There aren't really that many guys around that are "better" on paper. Just doesn't make mathematical sense. Besides they are...
That is the only issue that has left due to process of elimination.
My photos are great, I can get matches and phone numbers fast both from cold approach and from Tinder.
They are actually excited at first.
And then it stales and fails.
How is that not related to communication, texting?
Just a...
What else then?
This even happens when I pick them up on Tinder, at first we text and its all good and then they stop responding and ghost.
It's not like they came across sudden new information that made them ghost.
Texting for logistics only is bad advice, plain and simple. In practice it just...
But that is simply an incorrect statement. I don't know your culture, but many girls have said to me that me texting rarely made them think I was not interested and they lost interest almost. Also, I only get to meet girls I quickly arrange dates with, if I text only for logistics afterwards...
I don't agree with this.
The current girl I'm seeing is in LOVE with me and chases HARD, but initially she was VERY hesitant and it was not "easy" at all. I think it is BS honestly, just speaking from experience.
100% hit the nail on the head. Like pulling teeth. And I just DON'T believe there...
And please don't suggest "text only for logistics". That fails on like 19 girls from 20.
And I have at least 3 girls explicitly complain that they don't hear from me enough.
What other recommendations are there for texting?
What are your strategies? What is working for you?
Where can I find...
For you I assume this was an isolated incident, which "happens".
Why I am upset - this is a general trend for the last 10 years, which is pretty insane.
I mean, there is obviously something extremely wrong with me: physically or how I conduct myself.
Since they initially give me the number and...
Well, my brain is already damaged as you see so no big loss, right?
Also, this is conflicting advice. I've seen others advising to take DMT and LSD in order to loosen brain from these bounds. So I don't know whom to believe.
True, that is how I go forward and achieve things in life. I create a systematic, well-researched plan and methodology and I implement it one step at a time.
Okay, I see. I think I need some drugs lol, maybe DMT.
Thanks for book suggestions.
What is your specific, actionable step recommendation?
"Look deep inside yourself" - what does that even mean?
It's vague.
I'm not insecure or secure, I just am. I just see the way things are. I just observe things and draw conclusions.
I see that my current strategies for dating are...
I got stood up and ghosted by a tinder date AGAIN, despite this girl explicitly agreeing yesterday to meet me at specific place and time.
Yeah, at some point you just want to give up. There is only so much a person can take.
Thanks, this is good specific advice.
Bad advice, because its...
No, I try to wear bomber jackets and rugged clothes. I'm jacked and wide shouldered.
Yes, I have youthful appearance. I can't grow a proper beard, so I can't fix that and youthful appearance means I can literally date 20 year olds as a 30+ man.
No. Not sing-songy at all. Monotone if anything...
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