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I'm being objective. Ok, and. Let's say I am "insecure AF". What specific action should I take and how specifically I should alter my behavior, interaction during dates to improve my odds? I'm just after *****. Any ***** that is 7/10+. Medicore girls are easy to get. I just want to build a...

Idk, here are all the potential reasons I might not be doing good with women that aren't ugly/average: - I'm not 6'4''. Yes, I'm above 6 feet, but not "real tall" category. It's very important for women. - I don't have very low voice. It's below average, but not very low and seductive. - I have...

I've been thinking about this A LOT during the past month and the worst thing is my gut tells me nothing. My gut is confused. If previously I could have said for sure that I was being too arrogant, too boring, too stoic, too serious or something like that then at this point, idk...maybe I'm...

Yes. Rarely. I've done it a few time I think. I would say stuff like: "Oh, you are X? That is awful, we would fight all the time." No. Yes, I absolutely do that. I get them to share their secrets very early also. They tell me stuff like: "I've told you thinks I haven't told any of my friends...

Really? And through what actions do I convey this? One girl that I'm seeing right now said after first date she didn't feel if I really liked her or not, because I didn't text her. If anything, that goes opposite to your statement and I should express MORE interest, not less. Another case was a...

How can this be the case if I took the advice of "texting only for logistics". How is that needy? If anything, I'm not giving vibe of enough interest. Needy vibe makes no sense and is not quantifiable, so what should I change in my actions exactly? I already did that. Obviously, it failed...

I am now running an experiment: 1) I will message girls more often during the week. Throwing "text only for logistics" out of the window, since it has worked horribly for me so far. 2) I will engage their emotions more and think before each text. I will think how to send a text that will create...

What is the best way to do this? Also, logistics are only the problem until we have had sex. Once we have had sex, the girls ALWAYS want to see me again. I might not be good at sex, but I guess they enjoy intimacy with me nonetheless. For sure, sex is not the stumbling block right now, it's...

Might be true. I don't escalate to sex that much I think because my logistics are not ideal (takes time to get to apartment) and I'm not good at laying pipe. My **** is usually stressed out the first time, I often have PIED unless I've taken Cialis and generally, I need sex to be very specific...

In 30s. I'm not in USA. I have had 2nd date ****s with a few girls. I can do it. But that's not all girls that will do that. I will invite her to my apartment on 2nd date. I will offer that as transition so she won't see me as beta. Russian girls especially want you to court them a bit more...

Here we go. So I messaged one girl out of curiosity. I dated her we kissed, went on 4 dates, she seemed flakey and non-responsive. I was like. "It's very hard to get a meeting with you. It seems you are uninterested?" And she was like. "No, I'm not uninterested. Rather, I'm not quite sure how...

That "depth" is psychopathic to a normal human and involves delusions of grandeur and basically things that I would get destroyed for in society if I ever mentioned them out loud. That "depth" is something I will take to my grave. I'm not "THAT" good looking. My body is great, my height is...

I read what you said. You said I have to have I have "depth", but those are mostly interests no girls care about. Those are deep topics that I talk with specific mates. I have very high goals and specific aspirations and ideas, but I don't talk about them with others. A lot of that sounds...

I tried to be congruent by being "the strong silent masculine type", but instead I think I came off as "boring type" lol. I really don't know what the issue is. I think MAYBE the girls expect me to be more interested in them and write to them after the date or show more affection. But when I did...

I hide any depth, because it's all incredibly sociopathic and harmful. I'm really not a good person, so I can't express my true feelings openly. I'm pretty much a sociopath :( so I have to learn to be an actor and wear a mask. Possibly, but I was very unstable without drugs, so I have to take...

But I'm from Europa, not from USA. I'm from a completely different culture. From a culture where people don't smile on street or stores. I will upgrade. Apartment upgrade is in plans, but I don't think its the apartment, since they never get that far lol.. No, but at numerous times seriously...

Neuroplasticity dictates that brain changes over time. I need to know what changes to make and I will make them. Just tell me what to change specifically. Right now it seems, my communication is straight, abrasive and to the point and extremely logical. To lessen this, I should focus on...

I am totally FINE with sluts for rotation. Problem is, even "sluts" don't go on more than a few dates with me. Usually, not more than one date hah. Generally, my tinder matches has a very wide variety of girls. All kinds of girls, slutty looking ones, younger, older, good girls, etc...I think I...

I'm not shy by any means, but I'm quite direct and "abrasive". How do I get a more "Chad" type persona? I think Chads are more chill, not too serious and relaxed, positive generally. Also, about money. I actually do have it, but I don't flaunt it. I don't have top tier apartment (yet, but plans...

I'd rather just change personality to fit Chad persona then. What is Chad personality, how should I behave? I can change everything if required