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I was on a train a few months ago. It is busy rush hour and the train is packed, so I have to stand. This girl gets on and is standing next to me, she catches my eye because she is wearing a red lace top, showing some cleavage. After a while she goes to sit down directly in my line of sight. She...

Porn is at the heart of it. These guys are jacking off to porn instead of pursuing women. The biological need for sex isn't there so they shy away from women, and then this just worsens their self esteem and confidence. Their desire for women is more out of loneliness and validation rather than...

I do not know how this post has received so many likes. Just shows how people are totally clueless about this stuff. Go do a basic read of this: https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/ You've also probably never done nofap in your life.

If dopamine is too high then you will have premature ejaculation, if its too low you will have PIED. Generally it goes like this in my experience. Stage 1: first few weeks. Can get an erection, but no where near 100% difficulty finishing without extra stimulation. This is where you are...

I've been in your situation. It doesn't make sex fun. In short, your problems are caused by prolonged porn use and it takes time for your brain to readjust. Keep abstaining from porn and things will stabilise. Porn is literally like crack cocaine and totally messes up your dopamine levels...

Trying to initiate a conversation with a girl is like trying to talk to a ****ing brick wall. It just turns them off. It indicates subordination and betaness to them. I have better uses for my time than to beg girls. I can think of one instance that I asked a girl at work how she was doing and...

I will drop my report down. I slipped up mid November because I am still addicted to porn. Really its like crack cocaine lol. When I went to do it my heart-rate was through the roof, but I got it out the way as quickly as I could, it wasn't pleasurable I felt sick. I think the key to beating...

If the girlies are telling you no to the beard then you should listen to them. You wanna rock stubble. Just have a google of male celebrities all have the stubble look. They look young and clean, but with a lil bit of bad boy edge.

I can tell you she will give you some bull**** excuse when you ask her about it and you will probably lap it up. It's clearly eating away at your self-esteem, not good. Time to snap out of it. If I was you I would seriously evaluate your relationship. She's only getting away with what you have...

If you are having problems with fapping then you aren't getting laid, simple as. Really you should have women around when your horniness builds up, you should never be fapping ever. In fact fapping is the most beta behaviour there is. You're watching alpha men **** the girls that you want to...

If you think she's going to wake up one day and suddenly decide that you are the one for her, then you are vastly mistaken. She's got her cake and she's eating it. Two guys completely wrapped around her finger. Both needs met. Why would she discard one? It is very simple. You state what you...

Girls are temperamental. Their interest levels are only relevant to what they feel in the present moment. Heck I was talking to a girl one day and she went through literally every stage of attraction possible in the space of a couple of hours. Granted she was crazy, but all girls are like this...

Push-pull is natural to seduction. You have to give space in between for girls to develop attraction. You naturally push then pull. What you are talking about is feigning disinterest in a manipulative way to get laid. I have tried this with a few girls and to be fair it does work to an extent...

You have too much of a nice guy vibe. Drop all the hi I had a great time and hope you’re doing well nonesense. And the smiley faces. You also chased her too hard and pushed for a second date way too quick. Like the dust has barely settled on your previous date and you’re already trying to...

INTP Anti-social outcast. Hate people and most of my time is spent alone thinking to myself about how to get ahead in life, yet im here procrastinating on this forum. It's pretty cool.

If I was a hot girl I would just make an instagram page and message the guys with the most interesting profiles. Mostly looking for the guys with wealth and status... It just comes down to acquiring more resources at the end of the day. I'd rather do that than go out of my way to beg girls on...

What a ****ing mess dude, you are 21 and way too immature to have kids that shouldn't even be on your mind. Your imperative right now is to have fun and gain experience with girls. You turned this girl off through your own behaviour, not through other people influencing her opinions. Take...

I was dropping a girl home that I work with who has a bf. We was flirting and things escalated to where we started making out and probably would have ****ed if I was truly in the mood for it. All the while she was texting her boyfriend to soothe his anxiety because he is her security. And it...

It is simple, if a guy has abstained for 2+ weeks he is capable of having sex 4-5 times and shoot out max capacity of sperm. So even if the first attempt doesn't work, he has more attempts, which almost guarantees fertilization. Whereas a guy who has only abstained 2-3 days is going to shoot...

Okay, you did no porn and no masturbation, but how often did you have sex? because really the benefits of nofap come from not ejaculating. Even sex once or twice a week is going to take away that killer edge when dealing with women and your overall energy levels. And it depends also on how...