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This actually sounds pretty good. Making both men and women accountable and sincere in their approach towards dating. You're right. But this is how I see it: most OLD women are seeking validation rather than anything else with you. The key is to weed out those who have actual IL for you. Other...

I wonder if the RP / SS community came together to design and create a dating app, how that app would be like? I wonder how different it would be from Bumble/Tinder/Hinge/CMB. In my opinion, Bumble was the closest to being aligned with some elements of RP ideas; having the ladies start the...

As someone who has used all the dating apps over the past 10 years, the short answer is: yes. The long but concise answer, yes because: - app women are becoming more entitled year on year (perhaps the abundance + critical mass of bp men and simps on dating app) - it's hard to screen the looks...

What would you guys say is the "fundamentals" of game? If you could list it down, what would they be?

Thank you everyone for your responses. After reading and considering everyone's input, I think my conclusion on this particular plate is either: 1) I am actually one of her monkey branches and therefore the inconsistent behavior from her side; OR 2) She is playing games with me and using...

@BeExcellent thank you for taking the time in sharing. These are amazing!

@BeExcellent I've always appreciated your posts and contributions on SS. As a woman you offer incredible perspective. Thanks for your advice. Some follow ups for your female perspective: 1) How we one tell if a woman is approaching the relationship transactionally? And how can we tell if we...

That's an interesting point about feeling bad for him. I mean I would not feel bad for him if he is happy. After all he got himself a trophy wife and they've even started a family. If he is happy about it, good for him. If she treats him sincerely and lovingly, that's the best. On the other...

She was out with her friends and there were a bunch of guys orbiting them. Their group was in close proximity to mine and I could overhear one guy in particular who was just trying to DHV his life to her. And he was buying and plying her with drinks. I could see she was amused but not attracted...

You suggest that being indifferent and unreactive is feminine but wouldn't you agree getting upset or exuding a reaction to her aloofness is more feminine? Wise words @FlexpertHamilton, I agree women nowadays are increasingly strange and I think it comes down to the culture of beta men who have...

That's an interesting point. Initially I was confused rather than mad, by the point of my withdrawal, I think I sort of just gave up. Just moved on to another plate and just other things. I guess I could have declared that but saying "Hey, I've decided your mixed signals are off putting and...

Sure, I can share it for the sake of this thread and future readers. My dating investment with her: 1) I don't message her much because I am not on my phone much. But sometimes I will provide witty responses when she hits me up with casual messages. 2) I take her out to drinks, dinners, axe...

@SW15 you're almost clairvoyant! The 2nd option is not as good looking as the 1st. Id' say the 2nd is about a solid 7 in my eyes. The 1st is a hottie. I met the 1st at a sports bar. The night I met her she was being pulled by another guy but I ended up successfully pulling her away. Hypergamy...

I think this is on point. With the other plate who is high IL, it can be quite off putting. My mind is more drawn to this aloof plate. In my own reflection, I realized that I've mostly been affected by plates that behave like this. And embarrassing to admit, those which stopped being so "mixed"...

That is a very good point! And actually I've wondered about that myself. The truth is I don't really know her intentions for a fact. All I know is that when we hung out in person, I have no doubts that the IL is there. The stuff we do in bed. The things she says. Her mannerisms. They all...

Hey everyone. Thank you all so much for the input. I really appreciate it. This thread really took off and the opinions have helped me a great deal over the past few days in processing my own thoughts and my course of action. An update to the situation: Since she had been giving mixed...

There's a plate of mine that has been giving a lot of mixed signals as of late. We have hooked up several times. In person, she's all kino ( touching me, intimate, etc.), very receptive. But after our hangouts, she does a 180, disappears and acts distant. Often when I ask her out, she will...

Amazing. Thank you for your responses. I will ruminate and incorporate some of these into my own night game.

Definitely. I can even remember my thought process at the time. She went away and instead of taking it as a cue that she wanted to end the interaction I was thinking "I should take the initiative and keep it going. Keep the interaction alive." she clearly took and set the frame and I did not see...

This is a recurring thought for me. Over the weekend I hooked up with a dancer. It's crazy how we went from just chatting to ****ing in just 3 dates and how she went from being really "reserved" to showing me her "wild side" saying and doing all kinds of nasty things in bed. In my mind, I was...