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Definitely. I can even remember my thought process at the time. She went away and instead of taking it as a cue that she wanted to end the interaction I was thinking "I should take the initiative and keep it going. Keep the interaction alive." she clearly took and set the frame and I did not see...

This is a recurring thought for me. Over the weekend I hooked up with a dancer. It's crazy how we went from just chatting to ****ing in just 3 dates and how she went from being really "reserved" to showing me her "wild side" saying and doing all kinds of nasty things in bed. In my mind, I was...

Just a few follow up questions on these: 1) Do you mean you go out to night venues alone? 2) - If you do go out alone, how do you deal with the perceived weirdness from the girls and others? (e.g. when a girl asks "are you out alone?" "why are you out alone?") - If you do go out alone, how...

Amazing!! What would are a few tips you would give to improve and get better results at night game

This is amazing @BPH . Thank you for sharing. You're right, I might be cutting myself short here. I like your philosophy here. A bit of context: I went from mass-approaching from the PUA days which really got me nowhere (a lot of failed interactions) to picking up and only acting on IL which...

I've been trying to improve my night game over the past year. I've come to a few realizations: 1) As with game in general, focus on women with high interest rather than chase those with low interest. Case in point: last Friday I was out with my buddies at a new club in town, I made 3...

I've been on OLD for years but every year, my results from it seem to be getting worst and worst... (I pay for premium as well!) Of all the OLD apps, Bumble seemed like the golden goose. This was because Bumble integrated well with our RP understanding at one point. What do I mean by this...

Agree with this 1000%

Thanks everyone for the advice. I appreciate everyone's input. It seems clear that she wants something more than sex. Unfortunately, I only want sex with her at this point as she has not proven herself worthy of exclusivity yet. How do I keep things casual with sex when she is trying to...

Have been seeing a plate of mine for awhile. We have had sex numerous times (but mostly in the beginning). I assume she has high IL because she would always initiate and message me. And she is always keen when I ask her out. She is generally very compliant and excited to spend time with me...

But most women have higher body count than most BP men. I assume not that they necessarily want to initiate it but the abundance of men in their lifetimes initiate it with them and since they always have men in their orbit it's not unfathomable that this is the case.

I agree with you on this. Never thought about it this way but its true I think when we have an abundance of choice, especially those of us who have experienced having a lot of plates at one point, we don't really value sex as much (at least for me). We don't have that desperation for women. At...

Incredible story. Inspiring. Thank you for the candid sharing.

This is great sharing. In a way, I sort of get it. On the reverse side from the perspective of men who have abundance, I feel many women go out on dates pretending to be chill and casual with you but secretly they want to tie you down if you have high SMV. Obviously I am talking about the women...

What would you say is the realistic age window from which women start to experience a decline? This is very interesting and I think it's quite accurate, I've met many girls who've had a multitude of men providing different things to them. All the men want the same thing (to lay her) but she...

It's a known fact that most women (even mediocre ones) have an endless supply of men chasing them and giving them attention. I've seen this to be true through the years, even women that I know who are 6s have almost an army of simps after them and hitting them up. Some of these men have higher...

Amazing

I've met girls who behave quite normally during the date but during the first hook up, they suggest going raw or pull out. I always thought it was a red flag but not sure if I'm being too uptight about it.

Tag along question: would you guys consider a girl who wants to go raw on first hook up to be a hoe? And if so, would you guys think twice?

Concur. I've been on OLD for years now. These platforms show the most popular profiles first. Popularity being determined by the amount of matches and swipes. Which also means that every profile has an attraction score that their algorithms determine. When you start out new, you won't be as...