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She did and she didn't. We talked on tinder years ago before she even got with her ex initially. At some point we became Facebook friends and I'd randomly message her just asking how she was doing or whatever when I was having a lull in my dating life (essentially checking if she was single...

No. I have a lot of dating experience. I just tend to catch feelings for women who are emotionally ****ed up or unavailable for some reason. Every woman I've felt strongly about, literally every single one, had emotional issues (whether I knew it or not early on). The ones that don't I don't...

I have some female friends, but not many and the ones I do have don't live close by. I've always used OLD because my social circle has never been great. My best friends live far, and at this point (30 y/o) everyone is married. I don't talk to random women in public usually, and the only place...

What do you all think about me getting back on Tinder/Bumble/Hinge? Not necessarily to look for a date/hookup immediately, but just to swipe and attempt to connect with other women? I'll admit though that I'm scared I might see her on there and it's going to give me another panic/depressive attack.

Thank you man. I just worry that I will keep falling into this trap because I might have a mental issue or something. Maybe I need therapy? Maybe I should be on anti-depressants? Now that I think about it, I've always gravitated more towards women who are mentally unstable/emotionally...

I agree with everything you've said. The truth? The honest-to-God hurts me to admit truth? Denial. I don't want to accept that this is in any way my fault. I can't. It crushes me further because it makes me feel like I COULD have done something differently and changed the outcome, and the fact...

I had options before we went exclusive. I had a f*ck buddy, was on my way to a second f*ck buddy, had just had a good first date with a third girl, talking to others, and I was also seeing the girl in the OP. When we went exclusive I deleted my dating apps and didn't contact the women I was...

It's scary to say the least. I mean she led me on for 4 months and we did SO many things together as well as had SO many things planned for the future. Whenever we hungout she seemed as into me as I was into her. It's just unbelievable...

I sat her down and had that talk a few weeks ago after this happened. She had posted a sexually charged pic and vid on her Snapchat story, then she told me she was babysitting Friday but I saw snap story videos of her having a party at her apartment which she didn't tell me about or invite me...

What about "it's ok Sarah. I understand" then I delete her number?

She just texted me responding to the message I sent her. I didn't think she was going to at this point. "Yeah I shouldn't have started dating right away, I need time. I think I thought I was over my ex but honestly I don't think I was. I'm sorry Steven. I just need to be alone right now." You...

The red flags were right in front of me and I saw them but purposely ignored them because I thought it would work--i thought being with me would help her get over the pain from her last relationship ending and she'd fall for me like I did for her. She straight up told me 3 weeks ago "her heart...

You know no guy in my position could do that man... We need closure. And it doesn't matter either way. It would've been over no matter what I did or didn't say. She obviously doesn't care about me or my feelings, never truly did, and never truly will--whether she wanted to or not. And if I were...

Well yeah, because I wanted a relationship with her. But we were actually taking it slow--meaning no labels, and she was fine with that as was I. Then out of nowhere she drops this bomb on me. She said she had been thinking about this for a while, but she wanted me to spend the night with her...

4 months down the f*cking drain. We were texting today and she sent me this: "Hey. I have been thinking a lot about us lately, and where our relationship is headed. I'm feeling uncertain about our future, and I don’t think that's a good sign. You're really special and you deserve to be with...

Like why the f*** would she text me last night saying hey during this partying, then totally not respond at all after? And I still haven't heard anything from her.

I see another snap from 6 hours ago. I'm not sure why it didn't come through with the other one. It's her recording several friends in her apartment, including this one particular girlfriend, and there's music and drinking and etc. I think these people are all friends of this girlfriend. But my...

Well this is f*cking unbelievable. She messaged me on snap at 1030pm last night. Just saying "heyy". I messaged her back hey. 2.5 hours later I go to bed and she still hasn't seen/responded to the message. I figured she had just gone to bed. I wake up at 630am to piss and figure I'll check my...

Yes. Things are usually great in person.

I'm 99% sure she doesn't think anything of the things she posts bothering me, because I've never brought it up or even commented on it. I don't react in any way to her sexually charged snapchat posts.