After thinking about it more I tend to agree with the two comments above and also the ones made by others previously: she was probably a low interest chick with potential issues as well, given by how she handled the whole situation. I also speculate the first rescheduling due to the 'health...
You are right man, I got trapped into prioritizing these two girls in my mind over the last month. I've been traveling for work so was very busy and did not even check the dating apps for new leads. It was easy to just rely on 1 or 2 leads. After she ghosted me I got back to square one, sh1t...
Thanks, this is something that could work indeed. Though I haven't seeded the idea of us meeting up before, and was wondering if I should do it first before sending the invitation.
Exactly this. OK, I admit being late was not cool.
But this girl preferred to get dolled up, dressed up, drive all the way from the suburbs and then bail the last moment. It does not make much sense, so maybe she's unstable. Let me add that we had a brief facetime call to confirm the date when I...
Her account is private, you wouldn't be able to see anything. Plus I don't wanna share her profile in a forum for privacy reasons. But I am telling you she's just a normal girl, not everyone is an Only Fans attention seeker.
Now that I complained about my annoying online date experience on the other thread, time to focus on something more productive:
Long story short, I met this girl at an Easter house gathering. She seemed to be interested in knowing me and positioned herself in my vicinity. It was kinda obvious...
Ah right, this actually crossed my mind as well.
Could be, who knows. Just to give you some context, I can easily get a car anytime if I want to, I just haven't done so because I have not found it necessary so far (moved to this city a few months ago). She knew that I am quite accomplished in...
See, I definitely prefer real life interactions over online, but it seemed like an easy solution. She was eager to meet soon so I said 'why not?'
The other girl seems more cool and I met her in person through social circle. We talked a bit on Instagram but nothing had happened.
As a side note...
Totally agree.
Wrt your last point, I was thinking the same thing. As annoying this might have been, it maybe revealed something about her true character and I dodged a bullet.
About the transit system, I found out the hard way. I should have known better though, as it's not the first time really..
Also Interesting what you say about how Sunday is treated as a 'good girl' day. I admit I had not thought about it this before, but there's some reason to it. As you saw...
So here's a story that happened to me recently:
I matched with this girl on Hinge that was quite cute, and seemed to be responsive and high interest. Given the recent drop in OLD quality (as I saw some of you were discussing in another thread), I got excited and proposed a date for the coming...
I have definitely misinterpreted things in many occasions here. Though I am not sure she never had any interest whatsoever. I might never know for sure, but this is based on the feel I've got from our interactions. At this point it doesn't matter much.
As to what I am upset about, that night at...
I think so too brother.
Originally I didn't consider making a move as she was from work etc, but it was later when we started vibing that i got interested. By which time all these things happened.
Avoiding contact with her for a while has definitely helped me see things more clearly. At this...
I had to google the meaning of this word, but you are not wrong, I partly was...
Obviously I don't enjoy any of this, and this is not the case any more.
Thanks bro, you are right, I usually try to avoid getting into these types of situations, but this time I fell for it. Maybe because I was new to this city so didn't have much abundance when I met her. Or maybe I just got carried away. Anyway, lesson learned for next time.
Two months ago I moved to a new city to start a new job.
I started going out with a group of co-workers of similar age, including this girl that I'm writing about. She is cute but not particularly hot (~7-7.5/10) but is clearly my type and we come from similar cultural backgrounds, so it was...
Update:
After a week of complete radio silence from both sides, I texted her again today. Did not really expect her to respond tbh, but she did and seems open again.
I might have another shot after all
I feel you man, I've had cases of oneitis multiple times over the years, especially when I was younger. One of them was pretty bad. Luckily these taught me to be careful.
Hope you are over it now!
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