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I've been in a relationship for over 9 years now, married the last 5 and it's actually going better than ever. I still think of when we met, specifically where I was at mentally at the time. I was at a point where I had reached wholeness, I was fully comfortable with my life, alone. I felt...

The only way I know of to deepen emotional connection is to learn how she feels. To be curious and take an interest in her, what she's about, what she likes, dislikes, has experienced, does, wants and so on. NOT what she thinks about various things, how she feels! Important distinction. Be a...

I have never seen this. While it's obviously satire it would be more helpful if it was to pay for electricity, I spend several radiators worth on electricity for heating every winter. Although this video was made in a time where electricity was much cheaper than it is now. This is not true for...

Have you made it clear at any point that you're not looking for anything serious or do you just keep dodging it to continue to lead her on? I would respond with roughly what I want, if that's something casual then I'd just say so, even if that means she'll walk away. If I'm actually open for...

What Sara really wants is Marco, that's why the one night stand happened, but Sara is broken. Sara is damaged, subconsciously she thinks she doesn't deserve Marco, the next best thing is Danny who she feels more comfortable with given whatever fvcked up trauma she has. I have a female cousin...

No, "unpredictable" to you is just another way of saying you have no clue what you're doing right. To make a girl crazy about you, you have to show her the full extent of what you can give to her, but not easily give it to her before she has proven herself worthy of you. When she knows what she...

There's also being reliable and predictable, there's nothing wrong with that, this is ultimately a desirable trait. You do however not have to be boring along with that. The trap many guys walk into when they get into a relationship is that they have few desires in life beyond that, like...

I have always seen this as a crutch. Yes, it works, but it is still attaching self-worth to the external. If I do not for whatever reason end up without options then I would fear not being good enough because I don't have options and thus have a hard time gaining options. If I do have options...

If she does something I feel appreciation for I express that either through action or statement or both. Forcing it comes from fear of loss, that if you do not compliment her enough she'll lose interest because she's not comfortable enough. Resisting it also comes from fear of loss, but in this...

The end game for me is to enjoy as much of my time as possible until life ends. What that looks like in a practical sense changes with time. I have feelings, I pay attention to them and it tells me the next thing that would feel better or worse, I make my decisions accordingly. Some things may...

Many of these issues could be prevented or at least be spotted a lot earlier if men were as in touch with their emotions as women, generally speaking. Hate to say it, but the average woman is a step above the average man in that regard. I'm tempted to say it's not fvcking hard, but then I...

Feminism is for the most part just a cope for women with unattractive qualities, of course they'll drop it if they get what they desire. It's not unlike how MGTOW is a cope for men in much the same way, it would all go out the window if they actually get what they desire.

This is optional. The account can be deleted without deleting anything posted by it. The username will just show as "member" and the number of the user posting as guest, no linking to any profile. Found a random example of it here...

We've picked up on this and forwarded it to the admin. He will get in touch with you regarding account termination eventually.

Nope, we're not going down that path. Anyone else thinking of talking about politics take note. Locked.

Got turned down by a girl I was interested in, like with many girls before her, but that time I finally thought differently. Instead of continuing to just be lost I finally started wondering why the hell I couldn't get what all my friends seemed to get. I set out searching for answers on...

The best way to understand these things is to operate on feelings yourself, logic doesn't work here. Can't you see? Thanks. Doesn't matter as long as it's good. The thing with all of these questions is that you don't verbalize it, you show her the answers through your actions with her. So...

I appreciate the effort, but apparently I'm not supposed to see whatever it is you're trying to show me :rofl:

Sure, if he's a downer that drags me down then he's a bad friend and if he's just totally unwilling to fix that situation I'll get rid of him real quick. If he has most of his sh!t together and just seem to not quite get how to interact with women then I can look past that if the issue doesn't...

Well, their success with women should mean nothing to you because you're not a woman looking for a man in them. So I'd say it's kinda weird if your respect for them is based on the way they connect with women instead of how they connect to you, one man to another. I know plenty of simps, but...