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That's true but when I say "potential for more" I mean that I enjoy going on dates and having sex with her and I'd like that to carry on and see how it goes, not that I would want a relationship right off the bat. So in those cases it sucks if it's very short lived.

When it's the ones that I am not that keen on who distance themselves and take a step back, absolutely, it saves me the trouble. But when it's someone that I could see more prospects with then no, that's the opposite of the desired outcome.

That would be ideal but it sounds easier said than done though.

This is true. I also let my guard down and become more “real” with the ones I really like and quite early on too. It’s ironic because we’re supposed to be like that and it feels damn better too but I guess you need to wait and play along until you can do that.

Thats god damn harsh, I’ve had bitching when it happened in a relationship but no big deal in the grand scheme of things.

I am of the opinion to forgive flaking once, but only once. I would let a few days go by and then casually text to sense the mood and ask to go out again. It has worked for me in the past, especially when the flaking was not done on the first date. If I don't get a solid yes then I proceed with...

I think this is a fallacy people fall into when they are talking about OLD. A girl that does OLD doesn't necessarily mean that she will meet people only through OLD. You might meet a girl through any of the ways you mentioned in your post, and at the same time she will be doing OLD. So you are...

- What are your views on sex? Tf does this mean? You should assume that her views on sex are that she likes sex and has it with people she is attracted to. If you get any other vibes or she tells you she is saving herself for marriage, wants love first etc. then run. - Are you a virgin? If...

On this day 3 years ago I broke up with my ex-gf of 5 years. I had limited experiences with women until then, but after this and thanks to a few different factors (reading this forum being one of them) I got better at it and I wanted to enjoy my life as a single guy after a long time. During...

Looking back I shouldn’t have asked her back to mine after the date, as it was risky, but my eagerness got the best of me. As mentioned above, I’ll just play it cool now, act like nothing happened and text her casually tomorrow, ask her out again and hope for the best.

God damn that’s not encouraging

First date tonight, we went for some drinks, evening was going very well and we ended up coming to mine. As you have guessed, after one too many I couldn’t rise to the occasion. I was feeling like 90% there during foreplay, and the moment I put on the condom I could just tell it wasn’t gonna...

I’m a big advocate of no words before the kiss, no matter if it’s during or at the end of the date. It’s not rocket science, if the chemistry and vibe is there and you’ve laid the foundation through the date then 99/100 times you know when you have the green light and can just go for it. Any...

I would suggest against trying to set up the second date during the first one. It seems needy and uncool just sitting there and making real plans during the date for a following date. Hinting stuff like “we should go there”, “we should do this” etc. is different if you keep it vague but no more...

Isnt it possible that she will perceive that as low interest from you and not bother anymore, the same way we would for a low interest woman? So the result would be two people who like each other to mutually blank because of big egos?

What's the consensus for when they reach out after you've gone no contact for a few days? After the "hey, how's your week been" etc. do you just play along and respond in the same casual manner and wait for her to suggest the date or do you jump on it instead?

Chest workout girly? Tf?

Straight away

Try to go for the kiss on the first date. She doesn’t need to be a slut for that, we’re not talking about fingering her under the bar table it’s just a kiss. Text her Sunday.

it happens occasionally but not this time. Based on feedback and experiences I think I’m good but I’m no Johnny Sinns admittedly.