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Certainly possible. Life throws everyone curve balls, and those were mine. She knew this going in, if she couldn't handle it, not a problem as she was given an out. She gave me the line I will be with you through thick and thin. Well, we now know this was a lie. I only tried to put the...

Already a Patreon of AMS. He lives in a metro area. Much easier than when you live in the burbs. Then again, it seems he's given up on online dating too.

None taken. She was fine when I first met her in her early 30's. As she got older a new girl came out. The punch in the eye was in the bed when she was turning around and it was an accident; as was when she kicked me in the back during sleep. This was during our engagement phase, which I got...

Yes, I can agree on the fake profiles. I've had a few of them. They are not hard to see through with the descriptions not matching the profile. I've tried short profiles, long profiles, doesn't work. I do not see me renewing my match subscription. I'd have more fun lighting the 40 bucks...

No doubt. I get what you are saying. I just like the peace and quiet after working a long day. Being cramped up in a stuffy apt.; especially with the the rainy or snowy weather in middle NJ is no picnic. At least in a house it's not cramped. I already use a Google Voice number strictly for...

I've thought about that. Rent is crazy expensive though. I've been looking at foreclosures/short sales as well. So far, everything is sky high. Yea, I made a mistake moving to my current location. After I booted the ex-wife, I really made some nice upgrades to the home. I'd hate to sell...

That's the age range I shoot for. I just looked at my Match account and in the last two months, I reached t 318 girls. I think 6 replied once, then stopped. I even sunk 300 bills for a photographer. No help at all. Actually, I think my pics are better than the photographers. I do not like...

Checklist has gone down slowly. Never dated an over-weight girl prior to my divorce... I just couldn't do it. I would say, prob. went down after my divorce due to the rejection. That one over-weight one was a blow. I was trying to just get some field experience. After that, I dated a girl...

Yep, I've actually been in contact with Elliot for help with stretching to help ease the pain on my discs. His inspirational videos help. I was surprised he offered to give me some advice. He also offered for me to come to FL and work with him one on one. Good man. Yep, I am doing walks...

Hey Oldman, Thank you for your detailed POV. You also hit on a lot of things I am going through. I am not depressed, just frustrated at my social life. I had an feeling in my stomach that the marriage was not going to work, but so many things were coming at me at once, I caved into the...

Good points. Clearly I have a lot of work to do on myself.

Yea, that open marriage offer was a big blow, that was why I met with an attorney that week. We put together a plan for her to voluntarily leave my house. As stupid as it sounds, because we were married, it was considered a marital home and I couldn't get rid of her unless a court okays it or...

I never bothered anyone with my medical issues, even family. I do not ask for help from anyone; it's just how I am. I've always been like that since a child. As for her place, it was like a tornado hit it. It was so bad some times, I tidied up because I could not take it. She swore up and...

Agreed on most, but I was never a cuck. I've learned from my mistakes and I usually do not repeat them. I'm pretty good on that aspect. I just had so many things going on, I didn't notice the true nature of my ex-wife. I thought she was a peach for sticking by me in my time of need. In...

I've tried that and posted it above with the girl who was a bit heavier than what I normally go for. I usually go for women size 2 - 6, she was easily a size 8. No luck and was ghosted after the second date along with a make out session. She was a good kisser though. Didn't see the ghosting...

I thought I set my standards too high, so I lowered them. One was that one girl I was talking about. She's 32 and seemed like the had a good time, but I reached out a week later, ghosted. I did go on another date two Friday's ago with a woman who was also 32, but in shape. We seemed to have...

Yea, I tried meetups, and it's rough. There are a lot of weird people in those groups. When there is one or two attractive girls, they jump on them like white on rice. i just go and observe and enjoy the company. The only chance is going into metro areas, which are an hour plus from me. As...

Thank you for your reply. 1) Already work out 3 - 4 days a week for 2 hours and get blood tests annually. Amazingly, my numbers are in line now, but were out of whack for many years prior. 2) Make plenty of money. After my divorce, I went into earning overdrive in building my new business...

Hey guys, I guess I am a bit lost as I am trying to rebuild after a divorce. I was in a relationship for a total of 8 years. Of those 8 years, 30 - 36, two of them I was married. She was four years older than me and was already divorced once. She even said she learned about the mistakes in...