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How does someone show elite level interest and then lose it over night? She said she couldn’t be with me because I have a big ego.. remember anything can happen especially in the first months of dating. flaking, high interest, low interest. just be prepared for anything.

are you really quoting c.wayne in ss? that is sad dude.

wrong.there is no big picture if the present is gloomy. if sth is not working out u got to cut it. if you don't she will do it.

100% correct. all those sex and the city type of shows brainwashed them good. 30 years ago single women in their 30s would be just obsolete...

I hate it when they do that

high maintenance is closely related to spending loads of cash and doing high end stuff. I am talking more about doing things that will not make a girl get bored.

Yeah that is how a normal LTR should be. However with a lot of girls i dated, usually the ones with a lot of options/friends/hobbies the minute you 'relax' you are OUT!

good post. however looks, cars and a good job can get you the girl but in order to maintain that sort of girl you need to keep promoting that image. Laziness and boredom are the most lethal habits to battle.

So true. also no girl cares about your previous emotional baggage or whether some ex girls blew you off.

Well her IL plummeted.i know that. Nobody got needy dawg. that's your take. Nope you guessed wrong. no phone calls just occasional texting.

yeah I hear you. I just feel that this is not a good play this is just reacting to reality. which is that she wanted to get back with her ex. any contact after that is irrelevant. high self esteem people would not even have responded to this text.

this thread is kinda losing its value. Good play GG? what are you talking about? what was the play exactly. when a girl tells you I am just trying to get back with my ex it is an obvious rejection. so there is not much you can do other than disappear before you get more embarrassed. I agree...

yeap. that story is familiar. but again she was pretty clear from the start.

unfortunately the sex was great hence i caught some feelings. ghosting sucks! first 2-3 months are just so important these days

There is no such thing as a correct response. who cares about what you respond since it is over. if those responses make you feel better that is something else.

it is always the guys fault even if they explicitly say u did that u did this and also when they said no you were fine its me. its always a guys mistake.

I don't blame the guy. we all been there. when you start to receive texts from a girl such as 'what's wrong? 'I thought we talked about it' and 'I am sorry I did not reply' you know that this not only over but it has become embarrassing. I think that you can only understand this feeling if you...

A bit aggressive but you are 100% correct! This is a case of below zero IL!

good thinking man! however, it is so hard not to reveal anger if something really unexpected happens. but as soon as you communicate anger to her she is going to diss you to her friends and she is going to reinforce her decision to leave you. but as human beings we cannot be emotionless to...

true!if you say that to some girls I know they will block you forever.