Good call. Thanks again for your advice; always on point I’m starting to see through all your other posts too.
Where have you done most of your learning aside from personal experience. Which books, articles, etc?
So I could take her or leave her right now because of that message. But more plates are better than less.
Not to mention she wanted to change restaurants on my original suggestion previously. This makes me suspect she has a few ‘issues’ comcerning control and could be more of a headache...
Yea I can get where you’re coming from and appreciate the feedback. However, her sending a text like that is definitely a turn off and takes the wind out of the sails.
Let her keep texting you unanswered. She has super high interest. You said it yourself, she’s never bored in person and you’re a really busy man. She’s going to have to work for YOU. You hold alllll the cards here, my friend.
I’m pretty sure I just experienced the frame challenge with a new plate.
I’ve seen her twice. We had sex on the second date (2 nights ago). It was great. Everything ended well blah blah.
Today I message her and say:
Me: Come over Thursday night. I want to see you again. I’m free after...
Listening is great when with a woman. I just hope they have a thought provoking perspective.
How do you guys go about getting women to talk without constantly asking questions and making it like a job interview? Because women don’t always ask a lot of questions.
Do you relate to what they...
on a simple level - while not going too much in to the tertiary aspects of relationship - the woman closes her legs and becomes less excited because men who were growing before start to become ‘comfortable’ in some sense of their lives; which we all know is the decay of anything, especially that...
This is really solid perspective. And lightens the load if one is to engage further with that prospective woman he deems a good fit for his life. It allows a woman to have virtually no power over you, which they so deeply crave. Have to get on perfectly fine before her and continue to do so...
I missed my shot on that. Because she hasn’t reached out to me this week yet so I don’t think I should reach out again until she does.
And I didn’t have a huge conversation because she was going away that weekend, and didn’t want to seem needy; I allowed her to do her. Plus! If a woman wanted...
You wouldn’t pay for a woman’s ONE drink on the first date... If it was going really well and there was a connection with lots of flirting and touching?
I’m positive paying for a womans *single* drink would do more good than harm. I have tons of women friends and they HATE when a guy doesn’t...
That’s the kicker. I did really well and I’m proud of it. It’s just a bit of a mind fvck when everything goes the exact way i idealized it should and then the plate disappears for no reason — how she dropped off stone cold is just odd.
Goes away for the long weekend and then BOOM she’s sick...
Pack your sh!t and move on. Keep your value intact and don’t look back; “run Forrest!!” She will string you along forever and suck the energy from your neck like the vampire she is.
I experienced this same thing years back. She told me “I can tell in my heart you’re the man I will marry.”...
Based on your love for growing knowledge and self improvement, check out “Impact Theory” on YouTube. Tom Bilyeu interviews highly functioning and successful people. Straight to the source information. I watch one everyday. It leads to good reads and useful information which you can integrate...
Thank you very much oldmanoftheaea and guru1000. I needed this. Very good perspectives from both!
I’ve recently stated somewhere I’m fairly new to red pill and all of that. And I’m seeing I’m at my personal ‘red line’ boundary I’ve set for myself in the past. Now I’m at this crossroads of...
So it’s a new week and she’s back from her skiing trip, I imagine. I really want to see this girl again. Everything seems good except the fact she hasn’t messaged me. Our conversation was left off like this:
(April 9th)
Me: Sweet; enjoy the slopes!
Reach out to me when you’re back and we...
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