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So you go on dates with a girl, hook up with her, sleepovers and what not. Now she’s trying to lock you into a relationship. But you don’t want a relationship with her. What’s the best strategy to keep her around without giving any commitment?

im moving out of my condo right now. Went through a ridiculous breakup a few months ago. Worst breakup ever. Anyway I go to move my bed and under the box spring there’s a freaking weird a$$ voodoo doll thing with hair sticking out of it. Lol. So glad I’m moving.

I don’t text much. She tries to text me all the time. I just set solid date. I just validate whatever she’s talking about and say I look forward to seeing her on whenever date is scheduled. But she seems to want to hang out all the time. I was under the impression that this process was...

I went on date number three with this girl last night. She stayed the night at my place. We seemingly have lots in common. But she is already talking about the future, relationship, calling me babe. Is this a red flag? or good sign?

In all fairness though 20% of women are bat **** lunatics

You sound like a nut job to me lol. You sure she is the one with BPD?

In all fairness she wasn’t very nice to me either. But it was different. Sometimes we were nice and joked around and sometimes we argued. I thought it was kind of f.u.c.ked because talking to her was like talking to a girlfriend or something, not my lawyer. Was a bit flirtatious. Definitely...

I was being sued about a year and a half ago and got this lawyer. She’s a smoke show. I wasn’t very nice to her and ended up firing her because she was a junior lawyer and sucked. Anyway I matched with her on tinder and would love to hit that up. Just need a couple tips for...

Yeah I brought this dime manager from my work home with me one night and she just pulled my **** right out and started sucking it. Hoe

I was drunk one night and literally sat this ***** down and started a police style interrogation with her (in my mind it was hilarious). So I was writing everything she said down and going back to it, re-asking questions and poking holes in her story. She started to get sooo pissed off while I...

I talked to her a bit and hung out with her and what I’ve noticed is she just takes. Contributes absolutely nothing. And the thing is that I just don’t feel **** about it anymore. I don’t care. When we had broken up she triggered all sorts of negative feelings in me and I went berserk. Now...

I need to get back on the no contact wagon. This girl was trying to monkey branch back to me. I played like I was all down for it, even though I’m seeing like three other girls now. But I am acting like such a beta phag I can’t believe it. This isn’t me. I’ve never had Oneitis like this for...

I did block her. She keeps contacting me from different numbers or email. I put a filter on it so it goes directly into the trash.

I agree with this. But she can never overcome my resilience. I have been through some things in my life that make a bpd psycho wrist cutting nut job look like a walk in the park.

Sounds familiar

I did dump her during the honeymoon phase. She went berserk. But I kept hanging out with her because she was making me feel good. Somehow it was like we were back together again. The relationship escalated into a never ending psychological war. By the end, I felt like I’d lost my mind. I...

She definitely chose me. I was in no means beta though. To be honest, I liked it and was using her for narcissistic supply. Never gave a damn about her until she caused me major injury by entering into a relationship with a weaker lower value male. That’s the real moment I started caring...

She called me last night. Then tried saying that she didn’t call me. Then started sending me pictures of her and the guy she’s with (who by the way is low value in my opinion). ****ing nuts

You aren’t wrong. If you are dating a girl with bpd and you stay with her up until she discards you. You were a weak man.

I ****ed up my no contact today and told her to quit messaging me, I’m seeing someone else. She responds “I’m pregnant with new guys baby”. Lol. This **** is just too rich. I have been broken up with her for less than a month.