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Girl keeps emailing me, even though I’ve blocked her on everything else, goes into my trash folder. Today I break no contact and respond. I said that I’m seeing someone else and it would be inappropriate for me to continue talking to her. (We broke up just over two weeks ago). I told her...

I just got out of a relationship with a BPD girl. And I went freaking crazy at the end. I’m on day 10 of no contact and am just starting to feel better. Here’s the thing with BPD people. They have an extreme fear of being alone. So they always need someone there. So it’s highly likely that...

Yeah well she still doesn’t leave me alone. Emails and calls from blocked numbers every other day. Started out way more aggressive than that. Also I went the entire relationship without emotionally investing until the last two weeks. As soon as I did though she absolutely screwed me over...

Trust me. I’ve already been surprised and shocked. The reason I brought up the stalking is because the other night my friend was at the bar accross the street from my house, and saw her there. With her new guy friend. She never ever went to that bar without me, and she knows that’s a spot I...

I am angry. But of course anger is often times a secondary emotion. The girl constantly complained that I liked my car more than her, that I liked my friends more than her, that I liked my job more than her, that I liked my house more than her. Slowly she eroded away my connections to all...

My family and friends already know all about her and don’t like her. so they’re all on the same page, not only do they support my no contact, they demand it. Chick ain’t going to throw me into orbit. While she messes around with a super cuck.

Day 9 no contact. Feeling better already. ****ing psycho ***** made me crazy with her betrayal. Now I’m suffocating her out of my mind, and I can get back to living the GoodLife!!! Sooo excited to get this mental garbage out of my head, and fill it with something better. She still tries to...

Yeah this all sounds too familiar. ***** been trying to Hoover me already. I’ve just been maintaining no contact. Finishing up day 9. I’m not good at being controlled either. The ***** manipulated me at the end using my sympathy to get me to catch feelings. After months of no feelings...

Going back to her under any circumstance would make you not a real man. You would become a beta orbiter. Which would cause you to sink all of your energy into a void of darkness. That will be the outcome. You will forfeit all of your positivity, money, health, and life force to a lie...

Thanks. That’s definitely what I’m fixing to do

Finally just snapped out of it. I was stuck on the oneitus thoughts. Even though I never want to get back together with her. My subconscious was actively pursuing thoughts of “when”. Time to work on myself, do what I want to do, and become the person that I want to be. I’m committing...

Yeah, from what I can tell, is that I made a hug mistake dating this girl. I ignored red flags, and now I’m sitting in an std clinic to make sure that ***** didn’t infect me with anything. She told me that she has BPD and it is diagnosed. She just hadn’t told me before. So that pretty much...

Nice. Thanks for pointing that out.

Oh and now she’s emailing me (because I have her blocked off of everything) telling me that “she’s coming over, where am I at.” This is too ****ing much

Ok. I’ve got a serious problem now. First of all, every single day previous to today, I have ****ed up my no contact. This girl is in a relationship with another guy, we are broken up, and she’s been calling/texting/emailing me non stop. I picked up the phone last night and talked to her...

Yesterday was like waking into a nightmare. I have emotional issues in terms of just not having them a lot of the time. This girl brought my emotions to the surface though. I lie to myself, to my family, and to my friends about how unhealthy and abusive this relationship was. I started...

I think she has undiagnosed bpd

I wish I had never met her. I’m having troubles stopping thinking about her though. It’s causing me some anxiety. She isn’t worth my attention. I feel like my emotions are rapidly swinging back and forth between an idealization of the relationship and the reality of what happened.

That’s what she was saying lol. Not me. She was trying to lie about the new relationship and say that it was a test. Because I was being with other girls I failed the test. Like I’m completely retarded or something.

**Update** So I went no contact, and this girl went completely nuts. I blocked her off of everything and she started calling me from different numbers. 60 missed calls yesterday. Then she started blowing up my email until I blocked her off of that as well. The last thing she said to me was...