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well I'm fairly new here and I too have had an unpleasant time reading his often childish responses (from a 40 something guy...) disguised in a alpha-maley-like arrogance, I tend to remember how sad it is that he needs to communicate in such a way, in the same way he hides his beta lack of...

I guess someone needs to better define what spinning plates really mean. To my understanding, a plate is not spinning until you are having sex regularly with her and you have a decent amount of genuine interest in. Which is why I end up asking how long did it take you to comfortably say "I'm...

How's that "spinning plates" ? From what you mention, all 4 currently within your dating context you are either not excited about, you don't like, and one disappeared (to me this last one doesn't even count anymore) How's that having any standards ? Going on a date takes my precious time and...

That's the problem. Everytime someone on here repeats the "keep spinning plates" phrase like a parrot would, seems to give everyone an impression it's piece of cake to have at least 3 quality women in rotation and what everyone should be aiming for, when in practice is just plain exhausting if...

How the hell do you guys "spinplates" yet succeed at having a life and not have it affect yourwork AND hobbies of your own ? Its not the amount of time you spend with a girl it's the quality. If you are the best date and best in bed she ever had, you can go weeks-months without contacting her...

I've been following dating advice for a while now, being ultra-conscious about AFC behavior and improving myself to avoid it as much as I could but I keep having trouble with the expression "spinning plates" Reason being, I've been dating several women with varying results, and I can't never...

See, I did pick up on this, I did walk away and not look back, as I was already giving up on it several times over the course of our time dating (which she apparently found quite rude of me). With these mixed signals I was kinda expecting her to slowly not contact me anymore, yet she was ALWAYS...

I have finally ended the relationship with this gal. It was going nowhere, I was too hung up on her looks having no connection whatsoever and trying too hard to keep her as a sexual partner but it was way too much work. She confessed not being able to express any feelings on the outside. She...

A drunk text is often something you will potentially regret for, so why take the risk ? "she'd appreciate a drunken text" to me is basically telling that she is unsure about you (because you're doing things right keeping the attraction high), therefore she'd like you to be in a vulnerable state...

While you do make some good points making global explanations for some the problems I stated in this thread, you are assuming way too many things based only on what has been said, which in no way reflects my specific case in which a lot more is covered, just not discussed because it does not...

After a few more dates I have come to the conclusion I am dating a frigid girl, which kills me given how incredibly attractive she is physically. A real disappointment as she is truly, genuinely interested in seeing me more from a "practical" standpoint but lacks all there is to know about...

I've thought about having this talk multiple times, but I guess I always preferred to keep trying to read on her actions.... I have trouble seeing the line between "too soon" and "ok". Also, as you said she may acknowledge what I have to say but still be unable to do anything about it, if this...

And I would agree, except she's the one initiating contact and asking me out 80% of the time. We saw each other last tuesday, and I've been intentionally colder this time (almost no touching, only kissing to say hey/goodbye) so.. pretty lame in terms of a "date"... yet today I got a message...

oh, I do see it, reason why I posted this here, since there's obviously something not working. the reason I've been giving it more chances that I wouldn't have with others, is because you don't get a freaking gorgeus and talented 10 interested in you this much everyday, so I would probably try...

Yes I have put her on a pedestal a while ago the moment I found all her beauty contest pictures and videos on the internet (something she doesn't know I know, and that she carefully avoided talking about, which is understandable) and also singing and playing on stage (girl has talent, something...

See that's what I would have thought, but seriously she's initiating contact every day now and the last 10 days we've seen each other 4 times. She also shares her schedule about the days we don't see each other, and doesn't sound like she's bull****ting about it. Not that I'd have a problem with...

TL;DR Girl who's an absolute 10, shows constant interest by initiating contact, asking me out, an putting herself into my orbit, she does not resist any of my escalating, but it drives me nuts that unless I initiate everything, she will just treat me like a friend, won't flirt, won't touch...