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  1. Young_Don

    To msg after sex or not?

    Met up with a tinder match last night, solid 9/10 fitness model. Invited me over to hers.. badabing badaboom you know the story The sex wasn't mind blowing but still pretty good, smashed for a solid hour or so and made sure she finished a couple times. She said she had fun and off I went...
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    Dealing with emotion and reaction

    I do prefer LTR, I have no interest in sleeping around with random girls anymore. I don't need validation from achieving a girl opening her legs, it gets old and they're all the same at the end of the day. I've been on a date since then with an IG model and went cold on her after, she wants me...
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    Dealing with emotion and reaction

    I deleted her off all social media and I've got a potential date planned with another 9/10 next week. Not going to sit around and be sad about some dud girl who couldn't give a **** about me. Onto the next and I'll be applying a lot of feedback from this thread. Appreciate it
  4. Young_Don

    Dealing with emotion and reaction

    @Dash Riprock I appreciate it mate. I know it is a learning process but it's just so frustrating when this happens for like the 3rd time. Depression kicks in hard and I start to question my self worth, even though I know that they're the troubled ones. And what bugs me even more is that they...
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    Dealing with emotion and reaction

    Background info on her, she's aiming to become a singer (legit frikken amazing) and she's been all over TV around her home country and some parts of Europe, she's got almost 14k followers on IG and 45k on FB, so she's no stranger to attention. Her dad died when she was quite young, a lot of her...
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    Dealing with emotion and reaction

    So I've found a recurring pattern with women I start getting feelings for. I'm pretty selective when it comes to taking a girl seriously and considering commitment, not just with looks but how well we connect and whether there are red flags that I pick up on or not. This past month, I've been...
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    How the hell do you guys pick up women at bars?

    This is something I've always struggled with. I'm 25, from Sydney, and Sydney girls are known for being extremely snobbish to say the least. When I'm in a club/pub, there is never any shortage of absolute glamours in large groups, but I KNOW (because I've tried) that women, especially in their...
  8. Young_Don

    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    It took me 5 months but I can honestly say I'm completely over her. Don't care that she has a new bf or that she's off travelling the world again, I'm happy and content with where my life is headed. I'm starting to make decent income, making gains, and being more social and outgoing with random...
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    Men have given up on traditional means of dating?

    If there's one thing I've learnt it's this: 90% of the time, when a woman says she doesn't like this or that from a guy, she means the complete opposite. Things I've witnessed girls say and do, E.g. "I'm not really into guys with abs" - likes dozens of pictures of ripped guys with 6 packs on...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    I think I've come to terms with it all now. I think I can honestly say that I no longer give a fvck about her at all. I know for a fact that I'm better than any guy she's ever going to find, I treated her so well and she knows that, so in a way I kind of feel bad for her but at the same time I...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    I hope so man. I've battled depression since I was in high school and it's only gotten worse over the past few years, especially last year up to now. I've been having strong suicidal thoughts and urges, I've come really close but couldn't hurt my parents like that. I'm trying to hang in there...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    I think what is making me feel like **** the most is that I've just graduated and I'm on government benefits because I'm struggling to find even permanent part time work in my field. I'm stuck at home and all I have is the gym, and I don't even have motivation for that. I feel useless. I've been...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    To be honest, I haven't stopped hurting. Time hasn't eased any of the pain. Finding out that she moved on this quickly just made me feel 100x worse.
  14. Young_Don

    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Hey guys, haven't been on here for a while but I'm back. I broke NC 7 days ago just to tell her happy birthday. I kept it short and sweet "Happy birthday! Hope it's a good one x" Turns out I jumped the gun and her bday is actually the 7th of next month. She just said she hopes she gets a bday...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    @Reboot2017 That's natural bro, I still miss her a lot and if I'm being honest, might even always love her deep down, but I also have moments where I'm care free and feel on top of everything and then my mood will change back to thinking "what if".. But at the end of the day, when you know that...
  16. Young_Don

    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    It's been more than a month and a half for me and it's still hard too. I think about her all the time even though I try not to, and even then, I find myself having dreams about her all the time. It sucks but I think keeping myself as busy as possible will get me to where I need to be...
  17. Young_Don

    Guys with tattoos

    I got my ribs done - worst pain of my life lol But if we're being honest with ourselves, if tattoos didn't in some way, at least in our own mind, increase our confidence/status/appearance then we wouldn't bother forking out the cash and going through the pain to get them done. Whatever I put...
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    How Can You Be A Christian Don Juan?

    I'm a Christian on SoSuave, and what? I never came here to learn how to bed girls. I've never had a problem with that, but the more I grow and understand my faith, the more I'm moving away from that. I came here to learn how to grow as a man and how to deal/react to certain situations so that I...
  19. Young_Don

    Do girls fake their love for beta providers?

    A girl I knew through some friends who was keen on me for a while got married a couple years ago at age 22. She has 2 kids now, family is rich af and her husband works hard as a labourer. Before that, she rode the c0ck carousel like there was no tomorrow. Her friends told me this because I had...
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    How Can You Be A Christian Don Juan?

    Pretty sure you're confusing love with lust. Not sure what Bible you're reading but ok lol..
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