"my mental health is not okay,"
This right here is all you need to know.
Next. She will use her mental health as an excuse for bad behaviour until you finally have enough and walk away.
Unless you want to be mentally abused and ride the Rollercoaster of drama, next this one.
It can actually work in your favor. It shows you aren't desperate or thirsty for sex, shows the world woman you aren't worrying abou5 when/if you will ever get it again, and it removes any idea in her head about using sex to manipulate you.
You're trying to get women to use logic when they arent wired that way. This will not work.
Your looking at it from the wrong direction.
You need to Take the lead. Women know you will want sex. That is a given. You the lead. They follow. You pursue sex when YOU want sex. Not if/when/maybe...
You asked her to play pool. She said she was good. You yourself wasn't even whaf she rejected because you didn't ask her out or ask her for her number. She rejected playing pool with you. They most likely were laughing at something else.
If they were laughing at you over something so small...
Let the birthday come and go and stay NC.
She went cold. She was sending you a message. Let her know you received it loud and clear. Get busy do your thing. If she doesn't reach out after you let her birthday go by then her interest level was never that high to begin with.
Women can sympathize with men, but they can not truly empathize with them. They aren't wired that way. Hypergamy is the opposite of empathy
Some may feel bad or sorry for you (sympathy) and what you could be going through but woman can never truly empathize with a man aka walk a mile in his...
First things first you are waaaay too thirsty over this girl. You are spending waaay to much energy and emotion on a woman, Any woman, never mind one that is hundreds of miles away. Get a grip.
Time for you to get busy and see other and new women. now!
When they pull away and become distant...
She was looking for validation and you gave it to her. Your gut is speaking to you and you aren't listening.
" She called I answered I knew I shouldn't. I spent time with her I know I am going to get flack here."
This is your gut. She is trying to reel you in again because she needs to use you...
Sounds like you are co-dependant, and she is taking advantage of yanking your feelings along all while (being honest about it,) telling you she IS going to cheat.
That is all poly-amorous means is she wants a green light to cheat.
You can't let go and move on when she keeps knocking on your...
She branch swung to you, she branch swung to the next guy when you were busy. Bottom line you tried to Date a crap quality girl. Move on.
You help her out by giving her a computer and other ways you didn't mention So I am going to assume you gave her some money here and there and then she has...
Sorry you're going through all of this but as soon as you mentioned she was pan sexual it wasn't going to work.
"She told me she can only see me in her life as a friend with benefits"
This is how she she's everyone. Not just you.
You tried to have a relationship with a garbage quality girl...
Rick Wright's wife was pissing and moaning to everyone when he passed away and left her out of his will too. She divorced him at the time Pink Floyd was recording the wall (actually when Pink Floyd was broke because of bad investments with their money and she got. Nothing,) but still expect to...
I would say most of us here have. It is probably how most guys find sosuave. If you feel the relationship is toxic then you did the right thing.
In the first 5 months she is going to be on her best behaviour and the best her she will ever be. If she is toxic this soon then you did the right...
She was on the app for entertainment and validation. Not to actually meet up with someone. As most online chicks are. They aren't there to actually meet and go on dates. They just use it for free attention. You did the right thing.
Just ask. Be direct. Be to the point. Avoid groups be one on one. Groups will do nothing but k0ck block you.
"Hey let's hang out Sunday. Let's grab a smoothie. I'll pick you up at XX- oclock."
Her answer will tell you everything you need to know.
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