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Thanks Alexandar! I was a longtime lurker. Between the posts, DJ Bible and Anti Dump, learned quite a bit. Wanted to absorb and apply the material before I was comfortable giving advice. Wish info like this was around 25 or 30 years ago.

Mirror her communication rate and pace. If she's replying quick to you, give her the same courtesy to the extent it's not an inconvenience to you. I suspect this one could be "over gamed" if you over do the delayed response thing. And really, do you want to spend any of your valuable time in...

Without knowing about any of her red flags, and just based on her actions, seems like classic female hypergamy (looking for the bigger better deal) and the branch swinging that accompanies it. You were the first branch in a long line unfortunately. How to shake any co-dependency? Aside from...

She either has low interest level or she's being honest about being unstable. Or both. No reply needed. When in doubt (at least with women) nothing is most often the best course of action. If she reaches out to you again try and set a date if you're still interested. Excuses or outright...

Thanks for the great advice. Between that, reading the DJ Bible and Anti-Dump Machine I found myself avoiding most of the pitfalls that could of otherwise fouled things up.

FR Update: New Member w/ LMR Question Met up for 3rd time last night. Mission accomplished! Led her the whole time and even before the date. Made a specific dinner and dessert request and when I arrived she was cooking. Nice meal and conversation. Held back quite a while before...

Thanks for the insights. You all confirmed my instincts about the right approach. Lefty, if I can make the m#ff dive it's a done deal. Been a long time since I've been up close and personal w/ a new vag#ina but I imagine the parts are all in the same places and I can get her engine turned...

New member but been regularly reading the posts here for months. Looking for advice about how to break through LMR. I'm 44 and recently separated. Had over 2 years to "mourn" the 20 year marriage. Time to get the D wet after almost 2 years of celibacy. Ran into a high school girlfriend...