New Member w/ LMR Question

[Dutchy17872]

New member but been regularly reading the posts here for months. Looking for advice about how to break through LMR.

I'm 44 and recently separated. Had over 2 years to "mourn" the 20 year marriage. Time to get the D wet after almost 2 years of celibacy.

Ran into a high school girlfriend who's divorced. Never sealed the deal with her back then but did everything else. Think I'm being evaluated as a branch to swing to. I'm simply looking for some action and possibly add the first plate to my collection.

Met up 3 weeks ago for drinks. Near the end of the night she said she had to be honest, but she's dating someone. She went on to say she agreed to see me because she regretted not accepting a date offer from me after we had broken up years ago. Sounds like she's caught up in thinking about "what could have been." I said I appreciated her honesty. Totally ignored the boyfriend angle and initiated a nice make out session to end the night.

2 days later she sent me a text saying she couldn't stop thinking about the other night. I suggested we meet at her place. She agreed and that turned into an extended make out session. Had her ti##ies out, rubbed her pu##y through her jeans all while deep kissing. She was moaning like crazy.

Went to open the jeans and got my hand brushed away. Ignored that and a few minutes later said "We don't have to do anything you don't want but let's go someplace more comfortable." Went to bedroom and did some dry hu##ing and making out. Tried to open the jeans again and got told "Good things come to those who wait." Laid there awhile talking while she rubbed my c##k through my underwear.

Seeing this chick again tomorrow at her house and need advice. Do I put the moves on her again and see what happens, or avoid making a move to get the hamster spinning?

Little more background. On the rare occasion she brings up the boyfriend, she says it's not going well. Apparently her friends are bad mouthing him too, poor bastard.

Thank you gentlemen!

 

[logicallefty]

Welcome Sir. Glad you joined. 20 years, wow, but good for you for getting back out there. I hooked back up with one of my hs girlfriends 22 years later and had a 2.5 year ltr round II.

As for your situation.. The most important thing is that she agreed to see you again. I concur with Ruler on being persistent. But don't get mad if she turns you down a few times, just don't let her do it indefinitely. Try getting her going really heavy with making out and rub her \|/ simultaneously. Women love that. Then when shes even more hot and bothered than you took her before go for the pants again. Get down there and start eating it as soon as you can and you should be home free with the lay.

 

[RangerMIke]

I think you are doing great.

Ignore any reference to a boyfriend.... she has already confirmed that he is on his way out.

Be patient with her.... two steps forward, one step back move things forward, but pull back when you get resistance. Seduction is super fun... just don't get frustrated... based on what you are telling us, it's going to happen, she's just making you work for it.

 

[Dutchy17872]

Thanks for the insights. You all confirmed my instincts about the right approach.

Lefty, if I can make the m#ff dive it's a done deal. Been a long time since I've been up close and personal w/ a new vag#ina but I imagine the parts are all in the same places and I can get her engine turned over.

FR in 48 hours!

 

[logicallefty]

Thanks for the insights. You all confirmed my instincts about the right approach.

Lefty, if I can make the m#ff dive it's a done deal. Been a long time since I've been up close and personal w/ a new vag#ina but I imagine the parts are all in the same places and I can get her engine turned over.

FR in 48 hours!

:crackup:

You can break em' down pretty much like this. Pick one from each line:

- Shaved, trimmed, furry

- Innie \|/ , outie \{}/

- Freshy, funky, fishy

If it's just funky it can be fixed but if it's fishy run for your life :crackup:

After 12 years with my ex wife whom I was with from age 18-30 (1992 - 2004), I had sticker shock after her when I saw all the shaved be@vers for the first time. I think that fad started in the mid-1990s and thus had never seen one without hair until my first lay after the ex. I was like "woah" where did all the furrygals go?

Good luck bro, we will be rooting for ya and waiting on your report :cheer:

 

[Dutchy17872]

FR Update: New Member w/ LMR Question

Met up for 3rd time last night. Mission accomplished! Led her the whole time and even before the date.

Made a specific dinner and dessert request and when I arrived she was cooking. Nice meal and conversation.

Held back quite a while before initiating make out session. Just sat on couch w/ my arm around her and threw in a bit more kino here and there. Make out session starts followed by dry hum#ping. Soon she's topless and rubbing my c##k through my shorts.

She gets up to let her dog in and she took my hands and pulled me into her bedroom. That quick she takes everything off and the rest is a nice memory. Nice night.

She did wave me off a m#ff dive partway through session saying something like she wasn't clean. Could of fooled me it was the freshest pu##y I recall. If that was not clean, then clean must smell like peaches and plums! Oh well, next time!

 

[logicallefty]

Met up for 3rd time last night. Mission accomplished! Led her the whole time and even before the date.

Made a specific dinner and dessert request and when I arrived she was cooking. Nice meal and conversation.

Held back quite a while before initiating make out session. Just sat on couch w/ my arm around her and threw in a bit more kino here and there. Make out session starts followed by dry hum#ping. Soon she's topless and rubbing my c##k through my shorts.

She gets up to let her dog in and she took my hands and pulled me into her bedroom. That quick she takes everything off and the rest is a nice memory. Nice night.

She did wave me off a m#ff dive partway through session saying something like she wasn't clean. Could of fooled me it was the freshest pu##y I recall. If that was not clean, then clean must smell like peaches and plums! Oh well, next time!

:rockon: :rockon: :rockon: :rockon: :rockon: :rockon:

right on!!!

 

[Dutchy17872]

Thanks for the great advice. Between that, reading the DJ Bible and Anti-Dump Machine I found myself avoiding most of the pitfalls that could of otherwise fouled things up.

 

[Lozboss]

I think you are doing great.

Ignore any reference to a boyfriend.... she has already confirmed that he is on his way out.

Be patient with her.... two steps forward, one step back move things forward, but pull back when you get resistance. Seduction is super fun... just don't get frustrated... based on what you are telling us, it's going to happen, she's just making you work for it.

I would this when I dated my Ex.

Good work OP - but keep it NC now.

Get yourself some other options before you develop Oneitis!