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I'm exact same way. Right now I'm with a woman who has really good personality traits, good communicator, long term material for sure. Problem is her looks although attractive don't blow my mind and it causes me to question being single. But I know it's tough finding great looks matched with a...

Lol I know guys it's mostly bc of the way she ended things, she was super insulting and told me things I lacked etc Then couple months later she happens to find the "perfect" bf who magically possesses everything she claimed I didn't have. But from what I've seen he seems like a push over...

So recently discovered who my ex has been dating since our split. He's a watered down beta version of me, his sense of humor is corny, he's less attractive, he's older and has physical weaknesses (injuries that limit his activities) It just seems like a big slap in the face that she seems...

I mean is it normal to lose physical attraction or am I just a horny jerk? I don't understand how most men can be with one woman for a long time. Do they just choose their ideal physical type to keep that attraction over time?

Wow I think you guys nailed it, porn does make me want to find sluttier women or at least ones who fit the part physically. I found the ones that do keep me interested physically but make terrible company.

That's the issue I find the ones who are freaky and get me rock hard instantly are generally the ones that lack good relationship qualities. I'll be out in public and see tons of other women who have the look of "do whatever you want to me" the look my gf doesn't have and it makes me want to...

is that normal? Happens around months 4-6 and then I feel like an a**hole. They're always great girls personally wise I just lose desire to be sexual with them. I feel like bailing on the relationship to find someone that gets me more sexually interested but at the same time id be losing...

It's like saying money from a high corporate ceo has more value than if a homeless person just gave you 1 million dollars. You'd take it but in the back of your mind you'd be like wtf, I don't want to spend this it has no real substance. I think both men and women are guilty of this but for a...

Agreed I'd classify myself as the "non provider attractive guy" and my ex paid for most things. Funny thing is she got in debt and then suddenly I wasn't good enough for her anymore. Now she's with a not so attractive engineer divorcee with a daughter and she doesn't even like kids. She...

Nice. My friends do sometimes influence how I feel and make me question if I want a "forever" girl but I usually get bored quick. I'm curious what's the definition of a provider, I imagine it's more than just a guy who has a good paying job. Which is usually why most girls lose interest in me...

Nice! This makes sense and puts this in perspective, that the women in my life who have left me realized I'm not a "provider" So the only way to maintain a relationship is to become a provider?

Interesting. I guess I'm caught up in a social circle of friends and friends of friends/acquaintances who "seem" happy and 2/3 of their social media posts are with their significant others. Some who've been together over 4 years who are or aren't married. Just makes me wonder how the hell...

I just don't understand how all these guys have long lasting relationships and have never even came to places like this forum to be better with women and dating.

all my friends are married and have been with their wives for 5+ years and I've always been the single guy who has short term girlfriends here and there. It's come to the point where I don't even like hanging out with them because I'm exposed to that lifestyle of living with a spouse and...

Funny thread because my most recent ex is now dating a provider AFC. She seems head over heels for him, I was the "alpha" with a ****ty job that she'd defend to her friends about etc. Now she's with a recently divorced engineer with a daughter, coming from a woman who never wanted kids and let...

Yeah first time I heard that AFTER calling out her bad behavior. I feel like her new bf tried FaceTime calling me idk why lol I'm not convinced it was her. Who knows

Yeah first time I heard that AFTER calling out her bad behavior. I feel like her new bf tried FaceTime calling me idk why lol I'm not convinced it was her. Who knows

This would explain her saying "she deserves someone who's going to accept her 100% for who she is"

Update: Woke up to a FaceTime call by my ex this morning. I didn't answer it and wasn't sure if it was intended for me. Kind of random. Do I ask about it or leave it be?

I see well as far as I know she's been in numerous relationships, seems to constantly hop into them. So wouldn't that make her more mature in regards to your example?