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@Bible_Belt What do you mean by she's emotionally immature? And how does that differ from BPD? I remember things like she'd need sex to feel loved and if we didn't have sex she wouldn't be affectionate towards me ie cuddling lovey dovey stuff. One time she was all snugly and I said "oh so all...

Yes in retrospect I remember thinking "this might be a problem" when she mentioned lack of closeness with her family, sees a therapist, her friends are her family. There'd be times she'd tell me about her therapy sessions and she'd say "I was mentioning our relationship and she said "wow you...

Interesting post. My ex recently became serious (3 months in moving together) with a newly divorced late 30s father of a preteen daughter. At first it pissed me off royally as she probably sees him as mature and able to sustain a meaningful relationship plus the security of his high paying...

Hmm someone close to me also said she sounds emotionally immature. It's tough gauging exactly what she is. I mean our relationship started intense and ended just as quickly as it started. Like she was done at the onset of conflict (after the honeymoon phase ended)

This! It's like my ego wants her to want me again before I can really let go. It's kind of stupid, I know she's not ideal but she messed with my ego and it keeps me holding on like its a competition.

Thanks guys. I've been reading about bpd traits and she definitely fits some as well as a narcissistic traits. They're almost similar so hard to really decipher. But key things I remember now after reading up on them: in the beginning she seemed super into me and appreciated all my...

Hi guys, I just stumbled upon this site after trying to assess what happened with my ex. To date it has been THE hardest break up for me emotionally, and it's hard to shake. I'll give details about her/relationship/post break up in a bullet points fashion for ease of read. Relationship was 9...