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Couple months it's been going great. We take turns and cook for each other then have mad rough sex. The last time she messaged me after saying she has a week of consecutive shifts at work and won't be available. But then is spending her free time posting on social media catching up with her...

Slept with her on the second date. She's inexperienced in relationships but went hot and cold on me. I dropped her and she became depressed, gave chase and I relented and got back together with her. She then went cold again. I was leaving for another town and she didn't want to see me. Then...

Sorry bigneil for my poor grammar. Admittedly this was written in haste to stop me from going all AFC on her. 1) No, was 4 hours at a local lookout making out and chatting up (her suggestion after dinner) 2) I'd organised something mid week which she turned down as she was busy with a meeting...

I had this HB pursue me for weeks and we finally went out. Went until midnight hooking up, french kissing etc. We then had planned for a mid-week catch up and something else on the weekend but she just cancelled one due to a meeting she had for work (this was expected) and turned down seeing me...

I found this site 4 years ago and began my self improvement journey then and there. I've had my highs and lows. I've snagged girls then ended up in epic dry spells. Yet one things always remained. I've never lived up to my expectations let alone those goals I chose 4 years ago. Today I hit my...

I've been getting that from a few girls lately. Some friends, some of romantic interest. As I'm a photographer, the latest needed my help with a present for an aging family member. Although not as much an AFC anymore, I thought why not. She loved the photoes. Thing is that night in a...

I'm in this town temporary for work. I've recently moved in with a housemate I want to sleep with. How I see it, I'm only here for a few months and she's a solid 7 in a country town so why not. The thing is I keep encountering barriers. Anytime we're in a situation of tension, she flees. I.e...

I've never been first in my life. Upon graduation, I was offered the position I'm in because the first candidate pulled out. Don't get me started on friends let alone girls. Hang out? Only if the person they really wanted to hang with has pulled out. Hence I left my little country town for the...

I've been volunteering at a local charity this year. As it was quite a female oriented environment, I maintained the utmost respect and boundaries. The woman were all over me. Thing is my time here has come to a close now that I have moved on professionally. So it is the end of the season for...

How do you bounce back up?

Cheers buddy I dunno. I think it is more for me that I know I can feel her creeping back into my psyche and I know I just don't have the skill set to be ready for it yet. But then I was raised with more traditional values and that in our household when someone invites you in, you are obligated...

Typical oneitis story; went no contact. More so I have so much more important things to concentrate on. She lives in a neighbouring town. Due to circumstances, a female friend of mine was staying at hers and I was in town and visiting her. Thing is my accommodation fell through and her parents...

Achieve something; no matter how little, it has to mean something to you from a work project or a hobby that makes you god damn proud. Remember that story about two builders where 1 built on sand and another built on stone before a storm ripped through. Confidence is much the same. As much as...

I got LJBF a while back. Between then and now I essentially self improved. She somehow got back in my life and before you know it we were part of group road trips and the likes. We got back to our flirtatious selves and she was literally throwing herself at me. It was so apparent her friends...

Residual feelings suck don't they mate. But to be clear, you're only holding onto the fond happy memories of times gone by. The issue is you both know whom you both were when things didn't work out and that unfortunately given time will always come to rise. Do yourself a favor. Find a new bird...

Long story short: oneitis. Add my self improvement and long absence and all of a sudden a new sense of attraction from her. We got close; really close but there was always something. At the end of the day, I think she just enjoyed my attention. So out tonight for a large social gathering, I...

Over complicating. Be indifferent. Find another woman because the moment you let a girl get to you, you lost the game and it's an uphill battle to get it back let alone if SHE knows she holds the power.

I am sorry buddy and may sound like an ironic broken record when I myself have gone through what you have and posted something similar but as one of my mates told me I tell to you, 'Harden the f**k up'. I have a soft spot for aspiring medical students so I am going to lay it out for you...

Reykhel; thanks mate, reading that post, I realised I had lost my way in life and as we speak I am writing up my goals. It's been too long and time to get back. Raider87; cheers mate, hopefully so that I have still got better things to come!

Just shoot her a text or call her and see how she is. Don't push yourself onto her but leave it in her court that if there's anything she needs to give you a buzz. No one knows how anyone would react to a death in the family especially someone close; she may become distant or may seek you for...