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Actions speak louder than words....

Multiple opportunities... (1) being a masseur, (for almost 30 years), my clientele base is all WOMEN. Never once considered crossing the boundary, especially when they asked me for "happy endings". 5 years ago, I was massaging a HB8.5, (cute blond),in my apartment,who had orgasmed under my...

My mentality is always expect the worst, but hope for the best. This nonchalant attitude has saved me a lot of stress. If she shows up...cool. If she flakes....cool. I am giving her the privilege to chill with me, (in my world). If she flakes, it proves to me that she is not worthy of my time...

I've generally been a shy guy most of my life, so I can definitely relate. But I feel like I'm a quiet,educated man with an uncanny ability to filter out the nonsense. Being older also lets me know what I want, and anyone that falls short gets left behind. I find myself talking more with women...

Idiot? NO.... misguided? YES... WOMEN, (as well as MEN) cheat when something is missing in the relationship...(conversation, empathy, compassion, emotional bonds, etc..). I never judge ALL by the actions of the FEW. Not everyone cheats, but my question is what you are doing to attract these...

let her go. Some people learn the hard way, and she seems like the type. Protect yourself, and focus on you & the child. good luck

I have a tendency to write women off at the beginning as well. If I feel no attraction, (mental or physical), I LJBF'd them. I always trust my 1st instinct, and so far it has not steered me wrong. Women think I'm odd for doing this, but I'm particular in who I have around me......

to me, it holds about the same significance as a Facebook poke.....

It is true that we are a superficial society. Hollywood has brainwashed us to believe that if we have a beautiful mate, everything will work itself out. I was guilty of this as well, but what defines "hotness"? It is all interpretation. The most attractive of the species seem to be the most...

No good can come from this.....

I've always been one that was uncomfortable with compliments directed toward me. Even when I say "Thank you", it comes off as disinterest. Works for me, so I'm not complaining.....

Being a black male who has interracial dated for close to 30 years, (mostly Asian & Caucasian), it all comes down to the comfortability factor. If there is no interest, I won't date you, simple as that. Being older, (50+) affords me the luxury to date who I prefer to date, not to conform to some...

I concur, Harry. I am also a person who is an introvert, one who speaks very rarely, but yet when I interact with females, I give off this vibe of positivity that defies even me. I guess that's why I picked jobs that generate a lot of female response...(personal trainer, massage therapist...