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I randomly thought of this thread today. I realised I had not been here for quite a while and the thirst thought I had was something I remember reading here a lot.. whether it's still preached or not I don't know (I'm going to spend the next few days browsing and catching up, get an idea of the...

Yeah, you're getting fired.... I would back up any texts, emails or written convo's you have had with her, present them to HR so they are aware that you may sue for unfair dismissal and loss of earnings... this may make them second guess but as always, she must be telling the truth, cause she is...

If you cannot date multiple girls at once, then you're still yet to be unplugged from the false reality that society has conditioned you in to believing. Most of the girls you're seeing, or contemplating seeing, are seeing multiple guys... you think they care?

Of course she will say that, she will never tell you the truth about it. I have an ex who I 'think' was bpd, always craving attention, total facebook attention-w***e, lots of guy 'friends', false allegations all the typical bpd stuff, but I don't think she is diagnosed. Anyway she was cold...

Sounds like she might have been pushing you to end it for her. I smell a Chad in the background...

I have one problem with this. I already have plans with another plate. Thinking of doing an afternoon date with this one, and evening with another... this may be how the plates drops but we'll see if I can pull it off.

Exactly. One of my thoughts indeed was that I have the power right now and she is grasping to get some of it... when she doe's... game over. Definitely going to stick to what I'm doing. It's funny, I would give out similar advise, but different taking your own hey? Thanks for the clarity...

Good advice man, see part of me thought "Am I gaming too hard?" but yeah I think you're right, I was close to "softening" up a bit (Read: AFC'ing up).. thanks for that cause this may be the comment that has got my thinking back on the right path here.... This is why I love this place. Cheers bro.

Yeah I experienced a similar thing with an ex, back when I was letting the old AFC slip out on occasion, you're right, once you change it's game over. Thanks for confirming my suspicion.

I had the same feeling, keep to what works and let the hamster spin. Thanks.

^^^ Exactly this. Keep your self-respect and stay away from this one.

This is great advise! I love the part about switching the logic to emotion, really thought provoking, thanks. See part of me thought it was a s*** test, now I'm thinking she legit feels like I don't like her cause I wont let her into my life, she wants to be on my facebook too (to snoop I...

So looking for some outside perpectives on a situation I have found myself in. So I am spinning plates and trying to manage my time with each. My main plate in my eyes is easily HB8, been seeing her for 3 months. Her IL seemed low when we first started talking, she would tell me she is...

I'm not saying to necessarily care about what she thinks... but being free on V-Day is not going to get her hamster spinning... but to be fair my game is more about quick lays... so depends what OP is looking for. This is simply a way for him to subtly make her think she has to qualify herself...

...agreed. If you meet her on V-Day, she instantly knows you have no other options, attraction drops, game over before it begins. She needs to thinks she's in competition.

You're going to ignore him ain't you?! ;) But in all seriousness to OP, sounds like you're trying too hard, it repels girls and they can smell the desperation (with all due respect). Start trying to give less F***s about it and success rate will soar.

IL is too low. Don't contact again, find new plates. She will most likely eventually contact when she needs an ego boost... if/when she contacts ignore a couple of attempts then act like nothing happened, be funny/****y but make her work for your attention... smash and drop.

Haha excellent idea! Then I can tell my story to Bubba the bum bandit from block D, while he admires my shower etiquette!

^^^ This My one was abused by all ex's (apparently by me as well now haha), never had a job, never has money, family all mistreat her and in the end she made a false rape allegation against me.... obviously the charges were dropped.. and get this... she still tries to contact me like it aint...

This is very true! I made this mistake of hanging on with a single mother one time and it totally killed my self worth and self-respect... Took months to recover from that.. never again. Show her what she lost by walking away with a smile.