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Seems to be solid advice about social interactions. Thanks! Heh, okay. So I misjudged you for a paranoid. Kind of difficult to know whether joking or serious here, so many bitter/burned ppl around. And nah, this one is a stable 25yo asian girl.

Yeah, this is pretty much exactly the way I've been handling it. My direct communication works well, but I've understood, that women in general understand covert communication such as this better. Hmm, food for the thought!

Danger, thank you for the great reply! This is something I've been considering myself too: maybe my personality is the issue. While with the limited info I've given it might seem so, there aren't really any major issues with her (if one got such a picture, it was something "lost in...

Seriously, wtf? No there isn't. Did you even read the question or the title? This was a question about a minor aspect of running a LTR which is otherwise going well. While I greatly, greatly appreciate insights, I unfortunately can't see what is accomplished by comments such as this. At best...

Hi folks, I've got a minor issue with my girlfriend (with whom the relationship is otherwise going well). Nevertheless, when she does or says something I don't tolerate, usually I just confront her directly about it. This works very well. Sometimes however I just divert my attention/affection...

Thank you for the reply! In the past I dated a BPD chick and made a wow to not make that mistake ever again. I'm on my guard for the typical BPD behaviour to surface. That said, it seems really interesting that you think this is a waif-type girl. Hmm. Care to elaborate on those warning signs...

Thanks for the reply backbreaker! I appreciate your input, especially your rule of thumb seems like a sound way to measure the actions of a girl. However, I think I might have misrespresented the situation a bit. The girl had told me about this friend "guy" before (no details but I smelled...

Ha, too late. She sent me a message that she wants to return a certain item she borrowed from me and also have a "talk" about us in the next weekend... I felt anxious of losing her and, in a moment of monumental stupidity, caved in and called her upon reading the message and told her that I...

Hi! This is my first post so please bear with me. I've been lurking around on this forum (and blogs such as heartiste, tomassi & dalrock) for quite a while. Despite having a moderate success with women and having been red-pill aware for years, I don't consider myself worthy a title of any...