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Time for an update I guess. Well firstly I failed at day 49, and Text my short time ex. Why??? You will all be screaming and shouting at me. To explain - I went out for a meal with an old friend, someone I hadnt seen in over 12 years, during this meal we were discussing what had happened in...

I think for me I wanted to leave the 13 year relationship, So I got what I wanted, there was nothing left there. The girl I was seeing for a few months, I didnt want it to end, but I forced it to end as I could tell she didnt feel the same way as me. Thats life, and I dont blame her for that...

Definately my good Friend! You are speaking words wise beyond your years! There is no doubt that time is a good healer, and as time goes by we usually remember the good bits the most. Smile when we remember! But we smile more when we remember what we have achieved since!

Day 47 Id like to expand, and add to some of your comments if I may? I think how you get over someone is different for each person. Its about how that person impacted you, how it ended, how you felt about them. There is no defined time to get over a person. I was with someone for 13...

Oh sorry my friend, I thought you ment that you dumped her.

Excellent! Job done! youve achieved what you wanted by breaking up! you got your wish!

Day 43 Today is her Birthday. Happy Birthday! What ever you are doing, I hope you are having a great day! Really do! Me? Well I've started dating someone, been dating for a month now, had a few rough spells, but in general we are getting along well. Shes very different to the type of...

Typical women, Heartless and Souless!

The girl before this one dumped me. And it hurt but I honestly didn't care. I think you are right on the second point. I think we became very close very quickly, so she impacted me in a way I didn't expect.

Day 37 Still feeling like **** today. Truth being I really really can't understand why! I feel like theres something wrong with me! I will explain: - Prior to this girl I was seeing another women for 5 months, in that time I really didnt get attached to her, never really cared that much...

Thank you my brother, Its days like today I need a kick up the ass from someone like you!

Thank you my good friend! Youre a true brother in arms! No, reconciliation with her would be like hitting the bullseye on a dart board from a mile away, while blindfolded, standing on one leg, while sucking a lemon. In fact I suspect that is far more likely! lol. This is the most stubborn...

After days of giving advice, I think it's time to take some and listern to others. Day 36 I recently learned that the ex is and I quote "very very unhappy, and Doubting herself". Before the person whom told me this could say any more I cut them off, explaining that I do not want to know what...

Not at all my friend, you are acting like a human being! nothing wrong with that! Trust me we are all hurting. For the moment, don't expect to ever reconnect, just try and enjoy life. It makes it easier.

Trust me my friend, we all understand how you feel. I promise in time you will start to feel different, and other girls will get you attention, but most importantly - you will get theirs!

My brother. Something you need to realise, if you are struggling, then I promise she is too! You are doing this for you, not her! Its got nothing to do with her at all. Keep yourself sooooo busy that you dont have time to think! And in a few months, when your smiling cause of what you...

WELL DONE MY GOOD MAN!!!!! You're a true inspiration! but don't worry at day 35 I am hot on your heels and I will be joining the club soon! Keep the beer chilled for me!

I can't give you the solution my friend, no one can, only you can do that! There is nothing wrong with having the above 'thoughts' everyone, AND I MEAN EVERYONE' has thoughts like this, at the end of the day we are all crazy! It's true! You won't be able to do anything to take them out of your...

Mate, truth is all women are not evil Monsters, they do care and do have feelings. The last women I was seeing, you described there exactly how I acted. I was not over my ex, I know I wasn't. I had this fantastic women in my life that I loved spending time with, yet my ex was still on my...

You couldn't be more right! If I had followed my own advice in the past, I'm sure I would have had a much easier time. And more friends!