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DAY 5 After a huge fight with my exBPDgf (she stalked me, threat me and harassed me) I have finally decided to implement strict NC. It started 5 days ago. I deleted her contacts info and all the other stuff on my phone and pc. I blocked her and her friends on FB. I changed the place were I...

Clever... I don't think mine was on dating sites, but somthing changed a month before the brakup. She started to going out with friends more frequently and recycled an old female friend of her....(she had an affair with the ex bf of her friend and never told her about that). I think that this...

Pasternak, I know that she had a replacement when she disappered for 3 months. But she left me before having that. I have no evidences of a possible infedelity while we were togheter. Maybe an emotional affair? I really don't know. I guess it could be possible. I was suspicious and I've...

Thanks for your reply Mauser96. I am sorry to hear that you passed through this bad experience too. It hurts so badly to know she will never change. And you are right, she is an illusion, a skilled actress. Finally she answered about the money and proposed to give me back 300€. Obviously she...

Thank you guys. It is awesome to be understood. All my friends can't help me with this because they don't get it (they have never experienced this). You all are right. I'm missing the abuse, the toxic behavior, the illusion. I'm going through withdraws of my ordeal, it will pass, just keep...

Thanks to you both TheSlasher and Pasternak. I lost myself trying to help her and my life has became her life...she isolated me and I feel so lonely now. But I think you are right and re-building my self-worth will help me to let her go.

Yes, you are right, I thought I could help her but I can't. And I'm sick now... Her mother died when she was 9 and her father also has undiagnosed BPD...her sister is bi-polar...so she is alone. She moved from Sardinia to North Italy alone when she was 18yo. She is incapable of trust anyone.

:up: I know, I have to run! But, believe me, sex with her was something you can't imagine... she use it like an hook and it's so difficult to resist!!

Thanks MisterSisterFister, I'm going to take seriously your advice. She tried to call me but I didn't answer. I tried to get back the 800€ she owes me writing her a mail. She haven't answered yet and I think she will never answer. It's unbelivable how this people lies and uses non's for...

Yeah, I think you are right. I'm working in T on my self-esteem which is the cause of co-dependency...and hope to heal soon! I'm still in the FOG now. Thanks for replying.

Hi people, first of all I'd like to thank you all for the precious informations shared on this board. I'm a 34 yo guy from Italy (sorry for my bad english, usually I speak italian). I started my relationship with my ex BPDgf a couple of years ago. It took 6 months to win her...I really...