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To be honest I feared this may have been the case to some extent. I mean during the second date I was progressing escalation and told her to not worry about what other people think and ensured I kept it up. I did pull back a bit and let her chase between date 2 and 3, I didn't text her after...

I can accept both of those, but for future purposes is there any reason why interest would drop that quickly? I asked a female friend, and she said in all likeliness this is a power play from her part to have you chasing after her or there's someone else like an ex, because she had seen this...

Thanks for that observation, but she was having a lot of issues with insecurity it felt like. She kept asking if I was judging her or if I thought she was weird and I tried to get her a bit more comfortable and ready but no dice.

Met a chick and we decided to go out. Date 1: On our first date we held hands and made out at the end of the date. There was a good amount of texting going on (initiated by her, which I kept to a minimum as to avoid being text buddies and having nothing to talk about on the next date)...

Would like to know people's experience in how to best re-raise interest level from a woman whom showed high interest (70-85%) in you previously but now seems to be displaying low interest (51-65% let's say). Scenario is quite simple, she kept staring, initiating small talk, asking if I would be...

Thanks, I went with the obvious answer, but with tweaked wording. NC starts today.

And do I even bother replying? I tend to see her in a group setting on weekends and she waited 2 days to reply do I even waste time replying rather than wait till I see her in person? Assume I just say reply with a short answer, pretty much showing minimal concern? Edit: Also she's really only...

Okay, so after a couple of days she replied saying she's busy with her current project at work, and it's effectively clogging up all her time this month but offered a rain check (with no counter offer) Do I follow the suite in this article: http://www.sosuave.com/quick/tip167.htm Or do I...

How do you guys deal with mixed messages effectively? A girl I've known showed interest, but at the time I was involved with someone. I managed to see her again with a group of friends, and she was perfectly happy with initiating and re-establishing kino in front of our friends, dancing etc...

Busy with no attempt to reschedule. Guess I blew it.

And if she gives the busy excuse?

Okay, so had successful first date, and got a second date during which I didn't really get any vibe from her to go for kiss close, but I did initiate heavy kino (small of back, arms, hands, legs, stomach) but all I was getting was slight bumping into me and open body language. After the second...

Ok, so ignore and if she approaches simply state we're just friends? Doesn't that open the door to her simply using an easy out such of just playing dumb or doing a reversal?

So next seems to be the general consensus? If she starts up again, what's the most effective way to push back without causing an issues at work?

I didn't kiss on close, no. I felt really uncomfortable with the fact that she had all of these red flags cropping up. No I mean the next few days, her friends were much more open/accepting to me. When we were together the second time I was touching/rubbing/teasing all areas I could, thighs...

My first post so here goes. A few weeks ago, a woman from my work who had showed infatuation in me constantly kept following me like a lost puppy, finally asking if I wanted to go for coffee and we did. We hit things off and we exchanged contact details, she contacted me a few days later...