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Day 34 and to be frank I'm slightly disappointed that she hasn't tried to (properly) contact me even once. Much as I'm starting to feel like I'm moving on (certainly in a better frame of mind than the first two weeks) it's still a bit of a kick in the teeth. I guess I just want to feel...

Feminism is, by very definition, to do with equality and not excess power of one sex over another. Someone can dream to be treated as a legal equal without having goals of being supreme leader of the planet. There's understanding the innate differences between men and women and then there's...

I don't quite understand what the goal of this thread is. If you vehemently stress that you should not start a relationship with your ex again then what is it you're trying to achieve here? An ego trip to get you over her? I would say that you shouldn't actually be giving a damn if she gets...

This. The very nature of websites like this is to help you become a geek in the field of womanising and relationships. For the most part only those that have had previous failings and shortcomings are going to be enticed here - you get a skewed view of woman since people are here because...

Not everyone seems to get them but boy, the dreams are nasty. I've only had a couple with her in them but it's always the same overwhelming feeling of things being fixed and returning to how they were. It's like I've had a 3 hour long conversation with her and we're together again. It's...

Thanks tripod, that's what I've been telling myself. She'll probably have her fling, get her expensive presents and then get burnt out when it becomes untenable. I can't help but feel I'd find it easier if we'd broken up on terrible terms though - being borderline bought out of what was once a...

I know the exact feeling because a few months ago that was how I felt about my relationship. To give some background I'm 18 and at university, the (near two year long) relationship ended last month and she was pretty much my first everything. Now I didn't ever act on, or attempt to act on...

Deleted my ex off Facebook yesterday after I read a comment I'd rather not have seen. To sum it up, the guy she was partnered with on school US exchange (yeah, guy, she was the only girl to be paired with a male) is coming back here (UK) for a week in December and he was the catalyst for the...

So you're going to have to deal with the potential consequences of this for years to come? It really doesn't sound like a good long term thing to be doing but you know more about the situation than we do. You have to realise that "word getting out" consists of two girls that already know...

It's day 28 for me now and while even just a week ago I would've thought it outrageous I think I'm genuinely starting to move on. The flatmate of a female friend of mine has been giving off some good vibes the last few times I've spoken to her. By "good vibes" I mean that kind of intimate eye...

I'm nearly a month past breakup and the Facebook photos remain, still tagged. I think it really depends on the type of person and breakup as to whether or not you'd want to even be remotely associated with them. If it was clean (as far as breakup goes) and you don't mind people knowing of your...

You can shoehorn just about any girl into one of those categories because at some point in the relationship they are bound to display characteristics of one of them.

I think I've been lying to myself that I'm on the NC 2 route in the hope that I'll start to actually believe it when really I still consider her way too much and would be pleased if she texted me. The texting has to be the most horrible thing - every time I get a notification on my phone it...

I expect my ex will send me a text on Christmas and I know that if I don't reply she will feel horrible. Two Christmases ago, before we were together but after we had hit it off a bit, she cried because I didn't reply to her text wishing me a merry Christmas for a while. (She sent it at 1pm or...

This strikes a chord with me. The exact same thing happened to me at about 2.5 weeks after the breakup. Unlike you I did open it (I felt it'd be healthier to know what it was than risk potentially obsessing over it) and it was possibly generic, just her and one of her friends saying...

My first post in this thread and my first post on the forum! I lurked this page a few weeks ago right after the breakup and while I already knew that I wanted to go down the NC route prior to reading it I thought that formalising it a little might be good for me. So while I've not actually...