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I like to think of BPD/NPD/HPD women as a radiation hazard. The best way to avoid exposure is increase the distance. Shielding might work, but crazy can still fukk up your life. Just cut it off and don't look back. The b1tches are toxic. BTW, the husband probably already knows or has an idea of...

Use the number of self-shots any female has on her FB as a barometer of her level of NPD/BPD. My STBX has galleries dedicated to HER. One of MANY red flags I just completely dismissed. F*ck me!

Cut it off. The more I'm learning, the more FB seems like a big, digital manifestation of female communication. Just facade, and shallow, social maneuvering. It's like a graphic representation of a Cluster B personality disorder. Watch the women who spend the most time and energy on FB and then...

I deleted my account after recieving my 2nd message from a wife informing me that my wife was fu#king her husband. I had already moved out and knew the marriage was dead. I just decided I wanted out of that nightmare of BS self aggrandizing. FB is like a narcissists open mic night. My STBX lives...

I think my location is another stumbling block. Small town almost 40 miles from any decent sized city. Myself? I'm short, 5'6" but I'm in pretty damn good shape. Better than when I left the Army. I'm losing my hair so I keep it shaved Statham style. I have been told I'm not bad looking. I don't...

Howiestern, you pretty much described the woman I'm divorcing. I was a stooge. At least I can say she never, ever seems to look back. Always onto a new branch. One day regret is going to tumble down onto her and smother her.

I am finding myself in the same boat. I'm watching this thread to get some insight myself. It was a lot easier before marriage, children, divorce, etc.. My day is filled most of the time and when I do get some down time, I just want to rest. I was never one that had dozens of friends. I usually...

In my brief experience with online dating I almost exclusively attracted obese women. I was totally honest with my pictures and body type / activity level and what I was looking for. Didn't help a damn bit. You would think all of my pics featured me holding a cake. I am fatty catnip in the...

Do you think that the fact that her child was involved may have changed the whole dynamic? A neg that might have worked in another situation suddenly had new weight when her daughter was involved. I am a father and my mentality is not the same when my little girl is with me.

First off, Thank you for the help. I am the oldestin my small circle of friends and most are married or in a relationship. I appreciate the insight of men in my age range and situation. Second, I am giving myself an Irish mourning period of a year and a day before I even consider another...

I think my problem is knowing where to begin improving myself. I know I'm not ready for a relationship. A friend (her 2nd husband, ironically) said I need to take an rish mourning period. One year and a day before I even consider getting involved with a woman. I agree. I still tend to think...

male. Actual psychologist. Haven't got to see this new guy. Last one was an older dude that pretty much advised I look into Stoicism. Reading up on it now. I finally got approved by my insurance for real therapy and evaluation. I want to know why I put with so much and why my boundaries just...

Okay, short version; I live in the Bible Belt, 37, in the end game of a divorce, and I have a 4-year-old daughter. I was completely used, disrespected, and then discarded by my STBX. She was my first, I was her third. (I know, I know. F*#cking, stupid, but I thought it was love.) She might be...