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How would "No problem, maybe some other time. Let me know if you're schedule frees up" sound?

Everything was good in the run up to out date and yesterday when I said I was starting work, she said "Have a nice shift, see you tomorrow :)" so all good, but 5 hours before our date today she sent a text saying "Hey, had a huge fight with my housemate/best friend and honestly I feel like crap...

Went on a date with this really nice girl, she was a bit slimmer in her photos but overall great personality. I got all the signs from her like touching, etc but when she dropped me off after the date she gave me the cheek turn when I went to kiss her so expected rejection. After the date she...

So when I use online dating, I'll talk to various girls and get them out on dates and date a few at a time, but there will always be that one girl I'll prefer dating over the others, even if it's just slightly. I've been on two dates with this girl and set to go on our third this Wednesday, it...

She's with her girl-friends. We go to bars when we meet up, but she drives into the city centre as she lives in a little town outside of the city. I guess if she got the house free she might (we both live with our parents) or unless she got the bus, but I'd be reluctant to send her back drunk on...

I realise this, unless she contacts me. But what if the drunken me sends something? I'd feel more open to if she sends drunken texts to me a lot already.

Would you say it's ok to drunk text a girl, if she does it more times back? As long as you're not saying stuff that kills the mystery like "i like/love you" etc. I mean things like compliments and jokes? When I'm drunk I don't lose total control of the good and bad things to say, so not worried...

What do you mean exactly here? That I'm doing the right things and not giving away whether I like her or not? As I've heard women are attracted to guys who's feelings are unclear.

Luckily I've never opened up and shown my feelings in drunk texts before like "i like you" etc, it's always been me rambling saying my night was good and hope theirs is too, with a joke etc. I will admit I NEARLY sent one last night, but I got distracted. Off the top of my head It was going to...

A girl I've gone on two dates who texts me a lot inbetween has drunk texted me on three different occasions when she's been out with her girl friends. She includes stuff like hope i've had a great day, she wants a cuddle, that I haven't text her all day, that she wants a good morning beautiful...

Wow you guys don't mess about with advice, thanks! So she ended up texting me at 3am saying: "You haven't text me all day :( I'm drunk and wanted at least a good morning beautiful text xxx" Then at 10am she texted again saying: "Apologise for my drunken text :oops: I'm totally paying for it...

As long as you act confident, don't look needy, talk to other girls and have other things going on in your life you'll naturally text and do things in the right way. This is why I'd rather learn how to improve myself and not worry about what a girl thinks because then it'll come natural rather...

Yeah this is true. It doesn't increase it although it can maintain it if done right, BUT it also creates more chance of destroying it too. That's why I believe there should be some sort of playful texting going on, just sparingly. The fact that she hasn't heard from me creates intrigue from her...

What if three days go by and she doesn't reach out? Do I then contact or just keep waiting it out?

Are there any articles on this I could read more into? The last girl I did this with seemed to break it off because of the lack of communication between dates, so it's kind of knocked me from past experiences.

1) So nothing like "looking forward to seeing you Wednesday" etc? I guess something on the day like "i'm going to be a few minutes late, see you later". We've arranged to meet Wednesday at 5pm in the city centre but I haven't said WHERE in the city centre, so figured I could say we're meeting at...

We're not texting every day, far from it. We text a little bit on Friday and Saturday but the two days before (weds and thurs) we didn't, then before that we text then a couple of days before that we didn't talk. I don't text everyday because it's been draining for me in the past.

Fair point, let her reach out for things like that.

Fair point, but I do try to keep some mystery like if she tries to ask questions I dodge them and say you'll have to find out when you see me. Just to note, our texting isn't talking like getting to know each other. It's just banter like me making statements, not questions. I'll tease her and...

Is what I thought, plus want to make her wonder what I've been up to today. 10/10 for the pun. Yeah I've still been using POF and currently texting this other girl but leaning more towards this current girl. I've done good so far and having other options have helped. Okay, I won't bother...