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Yet I just met up with her and we talked and we fvked. But it’s not about that. I really like her, she likes me too. The theories here just don’t match up.

This forum has gotten in a bad place lately. I crashed yesterday and I just asked what was going on. She was indeed ignoring cause she likes me, but I just gave bad signals. Oh wait now the issue is that she is going trough a though time and I just happened to talk at the right time? Honestly...

Met a girl two years ago at work. We clicked but due covid and personal reasons nothing ever happened. About a year ago we started drifting apart which I caused, again due to personal reasons. Still see her at work from time to time, but comes today. I had a two month holiday and saw her again...

Very long story, will try to keep it as short as possible - for whole my life I struggled with low self-esteem - many girls found me attractive and fun, but I never was able to take it further because of the above - when I find someone attractive, I tend to close up, not being able to talk to...

Last year I met a girl, we hit it off, but never got to anything due to covid lockdown. I kinda ruined it after a few months because I got too needy (I always have this with people I'm interested in). I've always been very weak socially, especially with girls I'm truly interested in, so I felt...

Thanks for all the advice. Try to replace the negative thoughts with positive ones these days, but some just keep on coming back and can still make me feel depressed and feeling like "I'll never become who I really want to be, so why just try". Can you guys vouch for the fact that "as you...

I do not think I'm ugly, not a "wow he's hot". But I had girls show serious interest (which I unfortunately only realised too late or I was just to insecure and was too quiet). All in all, I think (or I hope) I'm a bit above average. About the creepiness. The last months I've been, and still...

Try to make a long story short Never been good in social settings, tend to close up with girls I really like, tend to feel like I'm the most creepy and ugly guy out there. Met a girl at work last year, was only able to have good conversations with her via text, and it went amazingly well...

Gonna be a long post (bottom is a tl:dr), but after this experience, I hope I can finally get the energy to make a change. 32 years old, always had trouble with my self-esteem and social skills. Age 17 started a 3 year long relationship, I ended it and immediately rolled into a ‘secret’...

Not gonna go explain the total story. But would it would be a good idea to just go nc on her for a day or two? I’m quite afraid she would just go to someone else and I’m done. Or would it spark some interest? Side question: if I would be her chad, what would my texting frequency be? Would I...

I did before but like I said somewhere else, it would take paragraphs to explain what's going on between us. I have to admit it's not the full story I am posting here, because even though there is anonymity on this forum, I'm still afraid that she might read this one way or the other. But I did...

I get that, but I don’t get it when you know she’s for real or when she’s playing you. You guys have 1000 times the experience, I know that. But it seems everything a girl does is a test/getting attention. Where do you draw the line? Don’t get me wrong, I know I have a long way to go. I know...

But she isn’t, on Monday she sure acted weird, but the next days when we saw each other from a far she always gave a huge smile or a huge wave. But my mind is screwed over. This night I was out with a friend, she texted me. I replied here and there when I could. And with could I mean when my...

I can't stay away because we work together... But yeah I can just stop texting. Look, I'm not over her, far from it. I'm still too much of a nice guy and thinking stuff like 'if I don't text now she would just go to someone else'. But to be fair, isn't it sometimes to easy to think of stuff...

Ok I don't get this anymore I've been basically ignoring her because I need to get over this oneitis I got for her. I used to go over for a quick chat or text her in the evening just asking her about her day or have a conversation. I didn't do this the past two days. She did text every evening...

Well she clearly tried to turn it the other way around. Didn’t text yesterday but late at night she texted and said she missed my texts, and said I sounded ‘mad’ on monday and monday evening. Fine I replied but kept it short, gonna keep her around for two weeks as it’s a busy period at work...

I’ll not respond or initiate, but the last few weeks we’ve always been texting every single night. Not this night though, sure there might be someone else in the picture, but I don’t buy it, not this sudden.

Point is, she smiles otherwise, we never really talk in real life simply because we have different offices, but if we see each other there's normally a wave or a smile. The reason I don't go for it, even though we work together, is just because I had a bad experience in the past. We are going...

Been texting a girl at work for a while now, we don't see each other often at work because of different workplaces. But yesterday we arrived at the same time and walked towards the building. Our texting has been going great, good conversations, slightly sexual from time (I don't ask her out...

Yeah, totally correct, if the girl is a bit more cute than average, I tend to close up and thoughts like "why would she be interested in me etc etc". Even though recently I've had a hb9 admit to me she liked me, it still does not click inside my head that I should trust my looks and personality...