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I have a big problem approaching women. It's the fact that I don't like to give them attention in any way. I've been rejected almost universally in the past. I hate feeding their egos which means that I get really annoyed if a girl rejects me in early stages of interaction i.e. before any words...

Cheers for the advice. To be honest in my experience girls never make contact first and always expect a guy to do the running. If I go no contact I will not see her again. I think I will deprive her of romantic interest and see where that gets me. She won't get many more chances.

To be honest I could walk away but I enjoy her company and would like to build a deep bond and lasting friendship with her. Sounds gay but like I said this girl is a bit special. It might not work out but that's life. How do you think she would react if I took the pressure off and just hung out...

If you have space you can use a gymball like a bench and do a dumbell press on it. Gymballs are also good for doing press-ups with your feet elevated. There are loads of other exercises you can do on them for your core etc. They're cheap it's just a matter of having the space to keep it and good...

Thanks for taking the time to reply. But she's not using me for attention I can tell when a girl is doing that. She's just unsure but I'm not sure why. I'm not being funny but it can't awlays be the case that if we don't have immediate we just move on. Sometimes it takes time to get to know...

I've been dating this girl on and off for a while (7 months) with mixed success. We've been on 3 dates but I'd been out with her and some friends a few times before which is how the attraction started to build. Everytime we've been out together on a date I've gone in for a kiss or touched her...

@Harry Wilmington Cheers for the advice. However what she actually said was wasn't looking for a "boyfriend" because men in her past had become obsessed or too clingy. I was more wondering how to handle a girl who doesn't need or exspect things to be sorted for her. Or girls who don't react to...

Nar bro not that lucky she was very clear she had work to do at home. And work always comes before guys with this girl. :D

I met a cute very successful young business woman on okcupid arranged a date and met her today. We spent quite some time together and went to a few different places. She said she was not looking for a relationship because her business was her main priority and dating was bottom of her list but...

Cheers for the advice guys. It's good to know my game is improving at least. I will back down almost toatally I think. She's going away for a few weeks on monday so won't be around for a while. So I'll move on.

No the date was just agreed to, no time or place was set for that yet. But it was clear the date was going to be just us. The leaving do was just something she was spreading the word about and it was an open invitation which is why I went with a group.

People like that always have a massive insecurity/weakness they are trying to hide. Identify it and fight back. I don't think "nice guy" or "bad boy" is the way to go. Be a "real man" find the weakness and match her level of agression/*****iness. But that's only if you need to. i.e. if you see...

I've been pursuing this girl from work and the other day she agreed to a date. During the same conversation she invited me (and my friends) to a leaving do the next day. We all went out and there was a lot of competition for her attention. I stayed calm and controlled got some alone time with...

Thanks for the advice PIMP. Thanks for being positive too, something some other responders have trouble with it seems.

I'll keep this as short as possible. I met this girl at a work function. She said she had a boyfriend but I got her number by inviteing her and her friends out with me and mine. We asked them out several times but they never came. So I lost interest in this girl because she didn't seem...