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Update After taking a break I'm back. I struggled with the whole "don't over think" and "act natural" thing. Here's the problem: thinking about acting naturally immediately put in a place where I wasn't acting naturally. I was in a feedback loop. I don't even know what the fvck I'm like when...

True enough. That won't happen again. My next post will be all about how I nailed her on the couch. I actually don't want that to happen. If I, or most of the men on these boards, called a man a "Beta" it's because we want him to live up to his potential. I wouldn't use it to shame a guy, just...

Sam, that had never happened before. She had never thrown herself at me. Not like that. Sure, she's jumped me and we had a good makeout and grinding. I'll ask her what that was about next time we hang. She is a woman after all so I'm not guessing as to what made her do that. I absolutely...

The Inner Alpha There are two full sets of assumptions that mean the difference between being an AFC and an Alpha. The AFC set focuses on women. That is, that women don't like sex, that they don't desire men, they don't want to be challenged or seduced or be dirty, dirty little girls. That...

Throughout my posts here at SS I've kept a secret that I need to reveal for this post to make sense: My closest friend is a woman. There. I said it. I know many will ardently flame me for this which is why I haven't written about her before. I've written before that I don't believe that men...

Feedback Thanks for the feedback guys. I wasn't expecting encouragement after behaving so absolutely AFC. I'm still avoiding both of these women. There's no use in arguing with them because my ex will still want me to marry her and the other will still want me as her...

I've dropped out since making this post. I went completely off the program and embraced my inner AFC like never before. I can't even describe how stupid I've been... but I'll try anyways. That lady I went to see that I was "going to try" with even if it meant rejection? Turns out I was way...

What Colossus said. Take it as a compliment. U.S. women are confused by well-groomed, outgoing men who take pride in their appearance. They're used to neck-bearded, shabbily dressed man-child types in tennis shoes and worn T-shirts.

Evan, to answer your question: Who knows? Women talk and talk all the time, and speculate out loud, especially if they are in the company of a safe guy. It seems like you're the work-husband. Read the advice of the posters above. From the little information you've posted you're a big mess...

Yup. Not having either until a year ago, I didn't know how this would end up. One wants to marry me and the other wants to LJBF-forever me. Damn, I had a sweet thing going until recently. I experienced this several times over the last few months and posted about it. I made myself a promise to...

Or He Just Never Learns the First Time, Or the Second In May of 2012, a bleeding AFC named DAardwolf stumbled into the Manosphere searching for answers. He had many, many lady friends but none wanted him for his manliness, only for his ability to listen and say kind words. In his mind, DA...

Heyas Scaramouche, "At your age" isn't really applying to me. I was married for 20 years and have been playing the field for only a couple years. After my divorce my life reset to my early 20's, including the camping equipment for furniture and being broke as hell. So I'm on the same playing...

I knew this. I've done this. Alright, I'm cutting myself a break, chalking it up to needing more practical experience, and moving on ready for the next time. Thanks for the response.

I wanted to fvck... Ah, now I see. Overly romantic. I didn't challenge, tease. Damn. I was courting her.

Never Learned a Thing Well gawdamnit and fck. I just don't learn, do I? Had an old friend of my show up more and more in my life. I was quite happy with myself that I stopped treating her like my old AFC-orbiting self and things started to get romantic. After couple of fun and exciting dates...

Answered My Own Question I was about to post the following question to the MM forum. But the process of writing it made me realize the answer myself: I don't usually look for signs of interest before asking a lady out or for her phone number. Last week, however, a couple number grabs came...

Thank SS and the DJB Just a quick note: A couple nights ago I had a very young, very attractive lady in my arms. She told me that her attraction to me is that I'm one of those rare men out there that act like a man. She liked my confidence, my resolve, and that I take care of my sh!t. I'll...

Woman as Wing? A quick update before my latest adventure: Financially, I'm still broke as hell but I'm recovering, slowly but surely. Took a giant chunk out of my unsecured debt so far this year- $15k. There's a lot more to work on, but I'm moving forward. I haven't used a wing man for a...

Betas are Worse than Women A drinking buddy of mine was talking sh!t about me to my lady friend, the one I wrote about earlier. Normally a smart woman with an excellent bullsh!t detector, she decided to believe him. She texted me her accusations and threats and I responded with the truth and a...

Response and Followup Agreed and will do. No, we were actually sitting on the patio drinking wine, close enough together that she was playing footsy with me. I'm laughing at myself right now because I can't believe I didn't act. No more waiting for the end-of-night thing. Good one. I know...