I have a female friend in business with me . My wife and I don't have sex ,haven't for about 3 years now. Just j o mostly. She has a hubby who is worthless and lazy. makes a person lose a lot of passion when having this situation. we both have talked openly with each other about our problems and our likes outside the marriage. She talks about wanting outside relationships if things don't work. That is alot. I have said I need a one on one. don't want to be with a lot of women. Like I said two people that talk about the things we talk about ...oral sex and how much we like it and everything. Is she somehow telling me to make a move or what?