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Still processing and trying hard to get over the fact i was dumped after a LTR of 6-1/2 years by my ex bpdgf. I'm still on meds and have been total ghost from her since Jan 18th of this year. Although she has not tried to contact for a couple months I still have the wonder if she will. This...

Then would you suggest not cutting contact with the daughter on Facebook? I hate to even bring up Facebook but it has become a bit engrained in society today. The advice I've been given here is to cut ALL ties so I'd just feel it'd be harsh to do this to her. But I know as well that my ex had...

Btw the daughter is in her third year of college and we would stay in touch on occasion via text and Facebook chat

Thanks Betheman and GroOver... Each day that goes it does seem to get a little easier but huge swells of depression and thoughts of emptiness appear. It causes a huge roadblock with moving forward in my life and at this moment and time I really need to focus on my finances and career. As stated...

Im writing this as a follow up to my earlier post http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=202911 It's been 2 months since my ex gf of 7 years said to me over the phone " out of respect I want to let you know I've put a profile up and want to date other men".. Dumped me after only a few...

OMG... I havnt read or heard ANYTHING that describes what I've been through and whom I've been dealing with for the last 7 years put more exact than this... This has been my exact experience. It's left me broke, homeless, 600 miles in a city I never even would have thought of living in...

I appreciate all replies here.... Scaramouche I will say this. I have been told and somewhat schooled as to how to react to her In a manner that would confuse and break her down. It's very dark. Lies, anger, negs followed with hints of niceties... All confusing behavior with no rules .. This is...

Thanks Bible Belt.. Your right with what you say man... It's like a drug... High highs.. And super lows.. We've broken up and gotten back together again, that's been the pattern... So this just sorta came as a shock. She'd always say that if we broke up it would take her months to think about...

Thought I was strong…this might be long. 7 years ago at the age of 44 I met this woman on a dating site. I talked her into going out that very night I saw her profile. We met at a bar. The rest was a ride beyond my comprehension. I had been married for 22 years, 2 children. Wife left me at...

hmmmm maybe she means "thx...now i can get back to suukkin off this new dude im with since i prevented you from coming to visit" lol

damn...thats all you get after 5-1/2 years......thx

well its done...i texted her..."This is'nt working. We should go our seperate ways. I wish you all the best." I took your advice she very quickly texted back "Thx" ha...that could mean a number of things coming from her....maybe best not to dwell on it

Thanks Window....well look i'm thinking about sending her this text....she's already texted me twice with little check in things..."hows your weekend" and " Whitney Houston died"... hows this: "weve been together a long time to long for playing games and I think we both know this is'nt working...

what johnnyventana posted.......yes she does....lol awww sh1t

its amazing the good advice from you guys....some of whom are my sons age....ha i think it just goes to show how damn wrapped up you can get in relationships with some women that it's hard to think straight.... so this will be my text to her...let me know what you think "weve been together a...

Warrior i might just follow your advice....but she just frikkin texted me "hows your weekend?" .....WTF

Now she just texted me asking "hows your weekend?"... are you frikkin kidding me..i cant believe this but its soo typical of her....she's 51 years old and acts like she in highschool.

I know your right...and yes she moved away to be closer to her family and her daughter in college...she's always said i could come with her if I wanted to, but always seemed a bit lukewarm about it. we've had similar experiences were she would pull and wait for me to push back and when i wouldnt...

I know your right...and yes she moved away to be closer to her family and her daughter in college...she's always said i could come with her if I wanted to, but always seemed a bit lukewarm about it. we've had similar experiences were she would pull and wait for me to push back and when i wouldnt...

Just wanna thank everybody here...awesome group. I've been browsing topics here on and off for a little over a year. I've read a lot of good advice concerning relationships...so thanks to all..... ok...I've been in a LTR (5-1/2 years) which now is a LDR as well, about 6hrs apart....I've...