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So she just responded - "I actually do not date men who are not white. It's a matter of personal preference. It was good chatting with you" haha. I don't blame her for having preferences based on race/ethnicity, I get that. But why trade 3 emails with someone you know you're not interested in...

Thanks a lot for the response, guys. tremendously helpful! PlayHer Man - Makes sense. I guess the common theme is not to be quick to "validate" myself based on the "criteria" she laid out, just brush it aside and go for the #. NN/Parad0x - thanks for the guideline. NN, your retort just...

In response to my question about how the website is treating her, she replies (and i quote): "Horrible...everyone is either trying to get in my pants, or too poor to date me, or i find them unattractive." usually if a fat, broke br0ad says this i would laugh at the irony. However, she's a...

Thanks for the feedback so far, guys. I agree with what Eph and Voice said about using half implications and also not using them as frequently as I do ^ I tend to agree actually. The reason I say that is because she really opened up and was casually talking about other topics which had sexual...

Just started talking to this one girl recently, mostly on the phone but have traded a few texts here and there. Both of us are busy atm, and can't meet up for another week or so. we talk/text like every 3 days or so, just to keep in touch. Anyway, i try and throw in sexual innuendos etc now and...

Given women's innate hypergamous and solipsistic tendencies, I've seen men emphasizing the importance of keeping your game "tight", to prevent your object of interest from monkey-branching. I'm trying to create a thread where there are a few solid responses that articulate this mindset...

I have a question - regardless of what your individual preferences are, im curious how you MAKE IT CLEAR to her that she is expected to take it in her mouth? do you just automatically hold it and move over to her face or do you let her know? i've had mixed reactions from women - some girls...

So, I have a plate that I have been seeing for about 4 months. We've banged like 8-10x and don't meet that often, maybe every 2 weeks. She's just someone im dating, NOT LTR material. Yesterday (friday), I set plans with her for tonight - she mentioned yesterday that she will be working, and i...

Whoa easy, my man! I obviously wouldn't have hit her, i used it only as a scare tactic - and it worked. Doesn't look like you read my post in it's entirety and just reacted instantly - I didn't lose my temper because I thought she was my gf or something (I already made it clear that we weren't...

Great post. Sometime last year, one plate that I was spinning started talking to this older dude at her workplace, and went on a couple dinners with him. We weren't exclusive so it didn't make me jealous or anything. One day we were hanging out at my apartment, and she lied about where she...

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This is interesting. Iceberg/Jariel - how have you guys gone about suggesting being just FWB in these situations in the past? Just something like "hey, no problem. I wasn't expecting anything from you, so relax, lol. If you're down to hang and chill, we can work something out". or something...

Try OK cupid or pof. They're free. But be aware that it is a numbers game, in that expect 1 reply for dozens of emails that you send out.

Haha, that's funny! But seriously, what's wrong with just relaxing & unwinding? personally, when things get crazy busy for me, i regret not having relaxed when I had a little downtime...and relaxation doesn't mean just being a couch potato, but any activity that interests you and you're not...

2 questions: 1. As Zekko also pointed out, what would you (or anyone, rather) have done, if the other guy was taller/stronger and could easily physically dominate you? 2. what if at this point, she turned her cheek towards you, backed away or simply said she doesn't want either of you? i...

Congrats dude. I can imagine how relieved you must be Care to elaborate on what you said/did? thx

Hi all -- apologies if this isn't the right place to be posting this, but I didn't know where else to turn to. I have a couple of issues while having sex, and I imagine that some women get turned off and dump me because of these. There are basically 2 issues: 1. I find sex positions where I am...

Wow, enlightening stuff. Good post, thanks. I guess it's stuff you take for granted, but the wake-up call comes when you come across real life stories like this one. Best to assume all women are the same, at least in the initial courtship period.

thanks, oneboy. Can't fvcking believe it!!! ANother b*tch on the website just emails me, and I quote "hey there, are you persian by any chance?" LOL 2 in one night!

papichulo - thanks for the encouragement. Any examples how/what to say? Don't want to make a fool of myself. Ringleader41- thank for the offer. I can't PM you since I don't have enough posts/privileges? Maybe i'll try emailing you? EDIT: Again, sosuavers, I'd like to reiterate that Im NOT...