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I've worked with this girl for about a year and I just decided to take the chance and ask her out and I got her number. I know the whole work thing has huge pit falls but I am the business office manager of a nursing home so I am surrounded by women, like 4/1 ratio, and I'm very selective about...

I'm 35 years old and honeslty I'm not that experienced with women which really kills me when pursuing women I'm in to but it isn't really for a lack of opportunities, more of lesser opportunities with women who are both attractive inside and out. I've had my share of ugly women throwing...

Man you nailed me, demotivated and frustrated with women cuz I don't have the tools. Very good response!

I'm just curious why ppl come here. It seems like many just want to bang as many chicks as possible and don't want to actually settle into a relationship.

Alot of girls just don't feel comfortable taking the intitiative in the early stages and many have that old school frame of mind to never call a boy and make him pursue. If she is responsive to you when you make an effort then I don't see a problem. I take alot out of the mind set of sites like...

How do you handle flakey women, move on or if they make a move give it another shot? I've got one girl I've been talking to that I'm moving on from cuz she is so flakey, says yes everytime I ask her out but ends up leaving me hanging on calls and texts. Here is an example of this one. We...

It's only been a couple of weeks and anything u say at this point is commitment territory so I think it is best to ride it out until u r ready to have that kind of conversation. If she is messing with other dudes that really isn't your business at this point nor is it hers what you are doing. So...

Anybody had any experience with actual chinese girls and I don't mean an american girl whose family is from china but a chinese girl from china accent and all. I read some stuff a while back on how their dating norms r kind of weird by our standards where basicly they play a really shy hard to...

Man I learned this lesson the hard way. With my ex I was the little lost puppy in the begining. Honestly it is nothing short of amazing that I got as far with her as I did cuz I just threw myself at her falling hard and fast but we moved in together. I loved this girl like crazy and acted like a...

I think you're right. At first I thought I was playing this well by shutting her off when she was bs'ing and that was keeping her coming back and it seemed that way at first cuz before I asked her out it was like she was daring me to do it. I"m white and she is black and I thought maybe she was...

So long story short. I met this chick in my mba classes and she seemed really in to me eventho I hesitated alot, it was to the point where even the most pesimistic ppl were like wtf dude she is laying it out there so quit being a wuss and ask her out already. I took this chick out once but all...

I can handle a kid or two but if there is more than two I'm out or if there is more than one father I'm out, that goes for all women.

Man I'm exactly the same. I took a black girl out recently but she's a flake but now I'm back to obsessing over black women. I was in an asian mode not too long ago.

I'm just curious how many white guys out there are interested in black women? I've got a thing for black women and they tend to respond pretty well to me and I'm curious of others experience.

Any tips on sending that first message to get a response? I've had profiles up on okcupid and pof for a while but other than window shopping and getting alot of homely looking women sending me messages I don't do too much on them. How about advice on nailing down that first meeting? In the...

Well I think once a man reaches the conclusion that he doens't want the hottest girl he can get but someone with the combination of phsyical attraction and personaltiy as well as compatibility then he is ready for marriage. But when a man picks a girl almost entirely on looks then he is playing...

All very good points. I know how stupid I probably look for even making this post, believe me if I was on the other side of the fence I'd have a similar response. I've had such a great respect for this girl for a long time but I never even considered the possibility of anything happening between...

She's actually told her husband she wants a divorce and they've talked about it while fighting but she just hasn't made a move. I highly doubt she would cheat or this point would be moot and I'm not trying to start an affair. I'm probably a little too close to her for her being married but other...

That could be in play a little for her not to want to be alone but overall I know her well and there has been something under the surface between us for a while. I wouldn't even be considering her if she wasn't so kind and we didn't already have some love between us.