Wtf does this chick want?

[aron77]

So long story short. I met this chick in my mba classes and she seemed really in to me eventho I hesitated alot, it was to the point where even the most pesimistic ppl were like wtf dude she is laying it out there so quit being a wuss and ask her out already. I took this chick out once but all along she has been so inconsistant, doesn't answer calls and often takes hours and hours to respond to text and sometimes doesn't respond at all. The final straw was that we were supposed to go ice skating on xmas eve and I called the day before with no answer so I sent a text, my goal was to confirm the time as I left it open, this was at 5pm but she didn't respond til 10pm, she has done that alot. When she did respond she says she hurt her neck and back so she doesn't know about ice skating. Like I said she has left me hanging alot so I think she is full of crap and flaking, seriously it takes 5 seconds to respond to a text. Then after I didn't respond an hour later she texts me again saying we can still go to lunch or dinner. I just said F it and never responded basicly blowing her off so we didn't go out as planned. I just feel like she is stringing me along so I figure this will piss her off and she will leave me alone.

So here it is like 11 days later and she texts me tonight telling me congrats on my new job, she is on my facebook. I did post some pics today of me celebrating my new job all dressed up with a dress shirt and tie on with a steak and glass of wine, and I was hoping she would see it. But I really don't know what this chick wants? She could have easily said that on my facebook like everyone else but after neither of us contacting the other since I blew her off she chooses to text me tonight instead. So I just had a short text exchange tho neither of us brought up our date that didn't happen. I'm at a loss cuz if she was that interested she wouldn't leave me hanging and she would answer when I call but this has happened several times where she left me hanging so I cut off communications and bam she texts me a week or so later. Only this time was worse cuz I was really trying to blow her off and I left her hanging with a date set up so I really thought she'd get pist and move on. Now I'm like is she trying to be my friend or something or is my willingness to walk away getting to her? I don't think she is all that intersted but why the hell does she keep contacting me then?

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Look dog. I'm very experienced in the game and by the first paragraph of your post you can tell this girl has a dude. If a girl is consistently taking a long time to respond to your calls and text then 99% of time she is dealing with another brother. Charge this btch to the game now. She isn't coming with 100% co-operation so go ahead and cut her off.

She contacts you because she likes attention and her man at home ain't checking her hard enough on that sht.

 

[Purefilth]

Nailed it^^

 

[Harry Wilmington]

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=200903

 

[Trump]

So here it is like 11 days later and she texts me tonight telling me congrats on my new job, she is on my facebook. I did post some pics today of me celebrating my new job all dressed up with a dress shirt and tie on with a steak and glass of wine, and I was hoping she would see it. But I really don't know what this chick wants? She could have easily said that on my facebook like everyone else but after neither of us contacting the other since I blew her off she chooses to text me tonight instead.

Come on bro, facebook congrats decreases her value while increasing yours. She is not going to sacrifice her ego for you so all her friends to see, and short text allows her to be part of the group and you remembering her without anyone knowing. But she still wants you around to increase her ego when the guy she is sleeping with puts her down.

I don't think she is all that intersted but why the hell does she keep contacting me then?

Ego ego ego. You are awesome for her without her spending money or giving you sex. Ask for one of those two in return and she won't contact you again.

 

[aron77]

Look dog. I'm very experienced in the game and by the first paragraph of your post you can tell this girl has a dude. If a girl is consistently taking a long time to respond to your calls and text then 99% of time she is dealing with another brother. Charge this btch to the game now. She isn't coming with 100% co-operation so go ahead and cut her off.

She contacts you because she likes attention and her man at home ain't checking her hard enough on that sht.

I think you're right. At first I thought I was playing this well by shutting her off when she was bs'ing and that was keeping her coming back and it seemed that way at first cuz before I asked her out it was like she was daring me to do it. I"m white and she is black and I thought maybe she was pretty in to white guys and pretty happy I was showing interest. Now I'm thinking she has some dude she is in to but he isn't in all the way and she just wants to keep me around cuz I've got some things going for me and I make a good back up plan. I am surpised tho cuz I thought blowing her off when we had plans was a dck move and that she'd get pist and move on after that, not what I wanted but I'm not going to be a lap dog.

 

[aron77]

Come on bro, facebook congrats decreases her value while increasing yours. She is not going to sacrifice her ego for you so all her friends to see, and short text allows her to be part of the group and you remembering her without anyone knowing.QUOTE]


Yeah I'm starting to hate the fact that I have her on my fb cuz I notice things. Like she used to comment and like stuff on my fb but hasn't done that for a while. Then the last time I cut her off and didn't hear from her for a while but then she deactivates her fb and texts me the same day. That seemed weird. Then after I blew her off she reactivated her fb the next day and since has been putting up pics. Idk obviously this chick has been driving me nuts but at least I'm not falling all over her like I might have in the past.

 

[VladPatton]

This is an attention whóre to the 3rd power here. What these twąts do is give you attention so you in turn can give them attention back. Now she has something to do. She can now happily give you false hope, get free dates, text/not text, flake on you, argue, toy with you, etc.

Now she is busy, occupied, feels popular and is tickled pink that some guy is chasing her and her phone is going off in front of her friends. Her social aura is being pumped up. Delete her off your Facebook and terminate this misery before you bust a blood vessel. If it's one thing this forum teaches you is to spot this out very early.

Another toxic twąt messing with a guy.


PS: Don't put chicks you are dating on your Facebook, it's none of their business what you do. You don't need to open your life to them, you don't owe them that just yet.