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Pretty much agreed, but I don't think it's necessarily a one off.. I hooked up with this girl when we were both wasted and she absolutely initiated, was wondering if it was a one off but it has since turned into a regular thing. That first night we were making out in public probably a little...

Sorry to echo others but asking definitely kills the vibe. It should be obvious to you if the situation is right and if she is expecting and about to reciprocate. If the situation isn't right then leave it. It;s not always appropriate.

You guys are so right.. I should just keep enjoying myself, carry on in the same way and keep my jealousy and insecurities to myself... Cause if there's one thing that is gonna make her lose interest it's that. I appreciate the info on the sorority situation though; also American college seems...

1. Haha I just re-read and realised you were in favour; edited :) 2. I'd thought this but being quaint and English is different to being weird. I guess I'll try and just play it to my advantage. 3. She's from USC, which I gather is a party uni.. Plus she's pretty wild and we hooked up for the...

So I've been hooking up with a cute American girl for the past 2 weeks and things have been going pretty well in terms of our rapport and the sex... I'm just wondering what to make of the fact she's said (in jest) "you're so weird" (and other things to that effect a few times) and also for...

Don't tell her before, it might freak her out, and she might doubt herself for being interested if she thinks others weren't before her... I can assure you if you control yourself and have an idea what you're doing she won't be able to tell. I've had a stunning alpha *** multiple times and...

Yeah they've definitely gotten into my mind. I'm analysing everything now, maybe the lack of sleep has exacerbated matters. Anyway I have no idea if she wants anything more and probably shouldn't listen to the friend who may have just been voicing her own opinion. Will see how matters...

So I've had a strange but good week in which I've gone from having one prospect to several. It may seem weird but I started hooking up with the best friend of the girl I was previously hooking up with. The first time (Tuesday) we were both wasted and it was a little sketchy, I thought it...

Development: the blonde said to the girl I liked originally that she was blackout and wasn't sure if we had sex but saw condom wrappers and assumed. So the other girl had to find out for her... Wtf. She seemed wasted but not blackout. It's not gonna be awkward and I know this is nothing new...

Ok time for an update, I'm deviating from the original theme slightly as I had a ridiculous, crazy night. I met up with her after class and we went to meet her friend straight away, then for a drink. I was flirting with the friend, when I saw her in person I realised she was actually really...

I'm seeing her after class today, she really wants me to meet her friend. I'm pretty sure she's trying to set me up with her, it's fairly strange. Originally the plan was to eat and then go and chill at her friends or somewhere (for one how is this gonna work with two chicks who are really...

Hahaha so true, I met up with this chick to have a smoke and chill and we ended up in her room on the bed dry humping and making out... She insisted we weren't having sex, she gave it up too easy the first time etc, I said I had no expectations but with a little bit of perseverance I got what I...

Hey, thought I should provide a little update. You were spot on with all of the above. I don't have any other good prospects right now, which is definitely why I'm so eager to keep this one open. Plus this girl is pretty damn hot and we have similar interests, but I'm 100% aware she's not gf...

Thanks for taking the time to read and respond in such depth. This is really reassuring and I think some excellent advice. I'll be sure to be less instantaneous with my BBM responses and when she gets back I'll see what she suggests about meeting up, maybe leave it a few days, say I'm busy etc...

After reading through many insightful posts, thought I'd sign up and try and get some advice. Sorry it's fairly long. I can sum up the main questions I have without the specifics; is it common to go from hooking up with someone to just friends, even when the person in question has said she was...