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No — I get it. I have no intention of texting her and when, on occasion, she bags my groceries I’ll shoot the **** with her. That’s all. Should she down the line have a change of heart, the ball is in her court. I’m not exactly erecting a shrine of her hair fibers with votive candles in my...

Yes I know but you never know what could come of anything. She could either be in a relationship and thirsting for something new or single but too ambivalent to commit to anything. She and I chatted tonight and see seems to like my sense of humor. Notwithstanding what I said, I'm not really...

I will say if she is in fact in a relationship and feels no need to let the world know -- she's a lot more appealing than I thought.

Thanks for the responses. I still find it hard believe a chick in her early-20s would not chronicle her life via social media. My money is on her being single and entirely not interested or barely so.

I know my method may make some of you guys cringe but I've done the conventional stuff plenty a time; variety is the spice of life, eh? There's a cashier at my local grocery store whom I have fancied for some time. Asking out women while they're working is typically a futile proposition so I...

As jaded as I have become with dating, where do you get your 98% figure from? No way that many women are "terrible". It is also a bit hypocritical as many guys have irremediable shortcomings. Now if you were to say more than half of millennial women make you want to go sit in a running car in...

What percentage of these 90s babes do you think go for older guys? I usually operate in that area and I often dread saying my age (32) as it may hurt my chances before I've gotten a chance to do so myself.

I do give guys like you credit and I don't deny it.

How many 50 year old guys do you see with smoking hot 20 year old women? There's definitely a subset of women who go for guys a lot older than they are, I'm not denying it. I recall one instance a few years back where I was hanging out with 20 year old chick. Right before I had met her at the...

Yeah there's definitely extreme cases. Doesn't mean, as an older guy, you shouldn't try. You never know if the chick would be inclined.

I don't dismiss the fact or begrudge you of your success with much younger women. All I'm saying is that college aged women who would go out with a guy twice her age are more the exception than the rule.

"It gets better" in certain respects: wages, wisdom, experience but not in others. You're receiving this confirmation from a woman who is part of a unique breed of women partial to guys much older than they are. There are many college aged women who like older guys but most girls around that age...

Why does bigneil think you are a feminist? A guy in his late 20s pining for the raucous college parties of yore ... um, I don't know where to draw feminist from that? Speaking of the college life that you and most of the guys here knew and feminism -- it must be scary to be a young...

She has been ignored before. I feel she has self-esteem issues.

This morning she sent me this message. This is the first time she's ever been angry at me: "I don't get what's up with u and u texting 1 wrd answers when I ask a question, I don't want to talk to someone like that. You're just mad that I didn't want to date you but that's my decision not yours...

True.

Well she has begun to question my interest. So she can keep playing a game she won't win. She is insecure and cannot handle losing the affection of a guy. In the absence of attention from another guy, she would come storming back to me.

The thing is, she was not butt-hurt. She wanted me to say "no, I don't think we are dating." She didn't want me to think we were exclusive. It's that simple. Her saying she never liked sleeping with me probably had more to do with ensuring I didn't make a move in the future. While I may not...

"you got what you wanted." Unfortunately -- no. What I want is a woman I can respect and trust. I think pvssy in a vacuum is overrated. Most men carve an existence out of 5 seconds of euphoria (which can no less be self-administered). All those PUA imbeciles and their inexorable pursuit of it...

That is true but I can't say it was a positive one. My experience with this chick has made me more cynical. Perhaps the next chick won't be deserving of such cynicism and suspicion.