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  1. HughJasolphd

    Bad body language causing issues?

    Can't stress the importance of exercise/putting on muscle to improve your body language. As long as you don't walk around like a jackass with invisible lats like a lot of guys do you'll appear better to the eye. I like to think of confidence as silently knowing you can handle things when they...
  2. HughJasolphd

    How many good looking guys here got absolutely nothing on dating sites?

    Online dating in my experience is a waste of time. I've only hooked up with two chicks off of tinder in a few years of on and off using it, sites like POF & okc is a needle in a haystack when it comes to finding anything worth pursuing. My self confidence is below average, but I'd say my body is...
  3. HughJasolphd

    Is desperation the biggest thing that kills most men?

    I can't stress how important having a genuine purpose other than chasing tail is when it comes to talking to women. Outcome dependence is largely caused by your own thoughts & "holding yourself accountable" for trying to be social/get laid. The mindset goes from " maybe this person is cool...
  4. HughJasolphd

    Did i do too much? And what happened?

    Welcome to the forum, bud First thing first; you texted her waaaayyy too soon to set up a meet up, & the follow up an hour later totally gives the vibe of neediness & low value to a woman. I understand being amped to meet a cool new chick, but I'd at least wait a day or two before mentioning...
  5. HughJasolphd

    Would you say this to a girl who gave you the friends speech?

    Silence works wonders in situations like this. Some girls definitely feel a sense of pride/ego boost when they throw a guy in the friend zone; they feel wanted & carry themselves like the chooser. Going ghost takes away that power, they get curious if you still like them (hamster wheel spinning)...
  6. HughJasolphd

    I got a girl thats a 10 but she's terrible in bed what should I do

    Some girls are just too in their own head when it comes to sex. I've had a few times where a girl talked a big game but then would lay there like a dead body. When I asked where all the freak **** went she would say she was afraid to look like a slut. If a girl is comfortable with you enough...
  7. HughJasolphd

    Why do women want guys to cvm inside them if they are unable to get pregnant?

    My parents really didn't do the best with raising me. They guilt me 24/7 for my health when it gets bad, smoke around me any chance they get, & a few yrs ago when my docs brought up the possibility of a transplant they wouldn't even follow through with it due to lack of family support on my end...
  8. HughJasolphd

    Anyone tried medication for approach anxiety?

    The fact marijuana is still illegal in many of the states is absolutely ridiculous. I feel like with anything, if used responsibly it can be utilized in a safe way where you can reap benefits out of it. It's nice to see cbd oil finally getting the recognition it deserves as an anti inflammatory...
  9. HughJasolphd

    Anyone tried medication for approach anxiety?

    To my knowledge Kratom isn't illegal. I did recently read that a university donated 3 million dollars towards Kratom research, so that's a step in the right direction when it comes to removing the stigma of it being this devil substance. I have tons of Kratom here at home, all different kinds of...
  10. HughJasolphd

    How to go about publishing a book

    I'd love to turn it into a money making venture but I'm realistic, I have no following that would bring in book sales at the moment..I'm not a presence on social media whatsoever & generally avoid it because it's become a politics war zone & I don't like all the negativity. I thought my best bet...
  11. HughJasolphd

    Compliments and Women

    I'll never approach a girl & instantly drop a compliment, it looks too needy for my liking. If I approach & begin talking to a girl, I have enough interest to follow through with a conversation. I like dropping compliments occasionally in the middle of conversation, where it doesn't feel forced...
  12. HughJasolphd

    Testosterone replacement therapy (TRT)

    That's why any training regimen should include squats & a form of deadlift. They are proven to increase test levels- far more than any over the counter supplement would. Squatting 2-3x a week would do more than buying a bottle of $100 pills
  13. HughJasolphd

    Testosterone replacement therapy (TRT)

    My medical condition won't allow for natural boosting- I tried for years before starting TRT...OTC supplements are bs for increasing test levels a considerable amount. I'd rather live great & healthy with a tiny bit of smaller nuts than feel like dog **** 24/7. I know what I got myself into & i...
  14. HughJasolphd

    Testosterone replacement therapy (TRT)

    Short term I've had zero side effects. If I can give an excuse for one, I'm more aggressive, but I channel that aggression into my workouts so it balances out. I'm equally as chill as I was before TRT every other hour of the day aside from when I train lol
  15. HughJasolphd

    How important is style?

    Definitely need to pick up a few polo shirts. I honestly feel better when I dress a bit classier than my everyday work wear
  16. HughJasolphd

    How important is style?

    I really like the look of military jackets/ leather jackets. I'd wear one every day if the weather allowed for it here. I feel kind of hipsterish in the flannel when I wear it no doubt. I read on another site that it's smart to avoid shirts with logos & just aim for plain shirts in black...
  17. HughJasolphd

    How important is style?

    I've been thinking about this a lot lately. I would consider myself a super clean guy- I get my haircut two to 3x a month to stay fresh. I always wear cologne, & take super great care of my teeth & body. But I can't help but think my style may be holding me back a bit when it comes to getting...
  18. HughJasolphd

    Jaleousy

    I feel this same exact way. As soon as I start seeing copious amounts of bull**** I start becoming more & more distant & most likely break things off. It's probably a sour outlook on my part but whenever I start dealing with a lot of crap & jealousy from a girl I always ask myself why do I...
  19. HughJasolphd

    Looking for attention or playing hard to get?

    Finally out of the hospital. So grateful to be in the comfort of my own home, eating my own food, & without antibiotics pumping in my veins. I feel like I learned a lot this admission: I think I dealt with a grade A attention ***** & it's probably better nothing became of it. I'm still friends...
  20. HughJasolphd

    RSD videos

    Took adderall once when an ex of mine had it prescribed...I ****ed her for hours, then cleaned her entire house & mopped the floors lmao. It was too intense for me
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